Quote of the day: There's no such thing as a non-working mother. -Hester Mundis
I am still thinking about which camera to buy. And because of that, I couldn't take a picture of my new kitchen in UDA, the house I am going to move in. I didn't expect it would be finished this soon. The floors been re-tiled with new anti-slip earth tone ceramic tile and the old rotting cabinet doors have been replaced too.
I've also pulled the fastest electronic purchase of a 3-burner Pensonic stove hub, only RM299! I looked around, chose one, paid for it, and brought it back for the workers to fix it in.
Daniel had fun just being lugged around. Hubbie was called last minute to an early morning golf. So, basically, I was doing the running around, the lugging around, the kitchen supervision when my father had to leave halfway because of golf as well. And Flo came at the right time, when I didn't have my pad! How cool is that. Surprisingly, I did not make a scene when I went home. I knew he felt bad for not being there.
Anyways, now, I have to get rid of one million things in the kitchen that came from my grandmother's era. I know some are worth keeping like the old traditional plates and bowls, but then if you keep one, you keep two, and then more and more. I'm really want to simplify and minimize! Less consumption, less waste! And not to mention, lots of scrubbing! The surfaces are sticky from the years and years of cooking, but not cleaning after the mess. Yucks right.
Finally I finished watching Sex & The City at 3am this morning, same time when the hubbie came home from yam cha with his friends. Also around the same time he came home from yam cha 2 nights ago. "Hou fan ah", he told me last night after dinner. It's been quite a year for him. The semi-relocation to KL, the expectations, the hope, the crash of hope, the another hope etc... I think he really wants to achieve something. Does turning 30 make men feel like it's time to achieve something in their life?
I slept in Daniel's room last night, with my iPod on, listening to some of my favourite 'daydreaming' songs. It's just one of those nights I feel disgusted sleeping next to hubbie. Just uncomfortable you know. He thinks I'm asleep when he comes home very late, but the truth is, I can't sleep until I know he's safely home. And of course, the best part is, this doesn't happen often, but when it does, it usually happens when I have PMS. What good timing.
Then comes the fun part when I conjure all sorts of ideas to spite him or make him feel really sorry. I'm vindictive when Flo is in town ya know. But almost always, I never execute my brilliant plans which victory will be on my side for sure. I know it's childish and petty. But like I said, those are just ideas and imagination, and it makes me feel better. But sometimes, I wished he'd knew about the war that's been tearing my sanity apart.
I feel sorry for the men sometimes. The fact that he does everything right for her many times over the years suddenly becomes unsignificant because of one thing he didn't do right, and that one wrongdoing is magnified 100X. Ladies, I know you're smiling.
But don't worry, at the end of the day, she recognizes all the blessings and love she has and live happily ever after.
Monday, July 30, 2007
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
I Now Have Side Parting
I have a humongous backlog of things to do. Why is it always like that. They are nothing but things I create, and I expect myself to finish them. I'm an extremist. I can be either very bored, or very occupied.
Maybe turning 30 has something to do with it. They say the thirties is the new twenties. Life just began at full gear.
My revelation crept in, not on the day I turned thirty, but perhaps a month or so after that. It's like an awakening that's on snooze, and I finally got up for real.
I have accepted myself, who I am, what I am, what I'm like, and I don't care a drop of what others think anymore.
I'm comfortable in my own skin, in private, in public, in front of my naked husband, in front of my peers, boss and handsome hunky strangers.
Maybe that's what it means by being wiser. Not in the knowledge sense, but in an emotional developmental sense. How you change the way you feel about yourself, has changed the way you feel about the rest of the world.
It's a priceless experience.
Maybe turning 30 has something to do with it. They say the thirties is the new twenties. Life just began at full gear.
My revelation crept in, not on the day I turned thirty, but perhaps a month or so after that. It's like an awakening that's on snooze, and I finally got up for real.
I have accepted myself, who I am, what I am, what I'm like, and I don't care a drop of what others think anymore.
I'm comfortable in my own skin, in private, in public, in front of my naked husband, in front of my peers, boss and handsome hunky strangers.
Maybe that's what it means by being wiser. Not in the knowledge sense, but in an emotional developmental sense. How you change the way you feel about yourself, has changed the way you feel about the rest of the world.
It's a priceless experience.
Friday, July 13, 2007
Cost of Living
Quote of the day: Opportunities always look bigger going than coming.
FINALLY!
I had some time the other day, so I did a little survey on the price of things in Singapore and Malaysia. Just the basic stuffs.
On average, people in Singapore and Malaysia would have the same digits as salary, just in different currencies. Let's say one earns RM3000, and the other earns SGD3000. It's a reasonable and realistic salary in both countries. So, let's see the cost of everyday necessity.
I went to Tesco, one of the hypermarkets in Malaysia that offers unbeatably lower prices. In Singapore, I went to Cold Storage, one of the higher-end supermarkets where expats love to go. And here are some of the randomly picked items I checked out..
Scott Tissue ( 4 boxes/pk ) RM6.45 $3.15
Kelloggs Cereal, Assorted ( 6 small boxes/pk) RM5.59 $4.25
Carefree pantyliner RM7.59 $3.05
Dove Shampoo 1L RM15.49 $7.10
Dove Conditioner 1L RM16.69 $7.10
Heinz baby food 110g RM2.15 $1.40
Nestle Infant Cereal 250g RM4.35 $3.45
Dragon Rice 10kg RM32.50 $19.40 ( for 10kg Royal Umbrella Rice, one of the most premium
brand, as I could not find Dragon Rice in Cold Storage)
Dynamo Colour 5L RM21.99 $12.90
I bought a children's desk at Toys R Us in Singapore for $69.95 ( original price was $79.95 before discount ), and I checked the same one at Toys R Us in JB, Tebrau City. It was RM199.95! No wonder the Toys R Us in Singapore are always crowded. The one in TC is always pathetically empty!
The only thing that is significantly cheaper, even after conversion, is cigarette. RM8.20 vs $11.00. Not that it affects me...
Have a good weekend!
FINALLY!
I had some time the other day, so I did a little survey on the price of things in Singapore and Malaysia. Just the basic stuffs.
On average, people in Singapore and Malaysia would have the same digits as salary, just in different currencies. Let's say one earns RM3000, and the other earns SGD3000. It's a reasonable and realistic salary in both countries. So, let's see the cost of everyday necessity.
I went to Tesco, one of the hypermarkets in Malaysia that offers unbeatably lower prices. In Singapore, I went to Cold Storage, one of the higher-end supermarkets where expats love to go. And here are some of the randomly picked items I checked out..
Scott Tissue ( 4 boxes/pk ) RM6.45 $3.15
Kelloggs Cereal, Assorted ( 6 small boxes/pk) RM5.59 $4.25
Carefree pantyliner RM7.59 $3.05
Dove Shampoo 1L RM15.49 $7.10
Dove Conditioner 1L RM16.69 $7.10
Heinz baby food 110g RM2.15 $1.40
Nestle Infant Cereal 250g RM4.35 $3.45
Dragon Rice 10kg RM32.50 $19.40 ( for 10kg Royal Umbrella Rice, one of the most premium
brand, as I could not find Dragon Rice in Cold Storage)
Dynamo Colour 5L RM21.99 $12.90
I bought a children's desk at Toys R Us in Singapore for $69.95 ( original price was $79.95 before discount ), and I checked the same one at Toys R Us in JB, Tebrau City. It was RM199.95! No wonder the Toys R Us in Singapore are always crowded. The one in TC is always pathetically empty!
The only thing that is significantly cheaper, even after conversion, is cigarette. RM8.20 vs $11.00. Not that it affects me...
Have a good weekend!
Thursday, July 12, 2007
Last Words
Quote of the day: Eat well, live well, die anyway.
Two of my father's good friends died of cancer.
One was a male lawyer who succumbed to colon cancer in his thirties. At that time, I was in my early teens I think. During his chemo treatment, he'd still go out with my dad and I, to shopping malls just to walk around. The last time we hung out, he had a excretion bag with him. I didn't know what it was at that time. I remember him as a positive and lively person. Even when he was sick, he carried on as usual, drank lots of carrot juice and still had the mood to go out.
His wife and him ended their marriage during his illness. I had a feeling it was his idea. Being a divorcee would sound better than a widow, perhaps. They didn't have any children.
One day, he had to stay in bed, and for many days after that until his last breath. My dad would visit him often. I followed him one time.
He had this hospital bed in his room, with tubes and a machine beside it. He had grown so small. I never apprehended how fragile our bodies could be.
I was alone with him in the room. I just sat beside him and watched him breath heavily and slowly. He looked tired. Then he turned to me and asked me the weirdest question I have ever heard. " Will you call me papa?"
As a pre-teen girl, I was stunned. I hesitated for an answer, but never gave any eventually. That is the biggest regret in my life. I could have made a dying man's dream come true, but I was too naive.
Those were his last words to me.
Another was a lady friend, actually the wife of one of my father's good friends.
Her name was May. She succumbed to lung cancer just a couple of years ago. I never visited her, because the family kept it very private.
I did spend a few good years growing up with her three children. Almost every weekend was spent either at their big luxury home, or at the club, learning tennis and swimming.
They were rich. They lived in a huge bungalow in a prime housing estate and drove luxury cars. Everytime I went to their home, I felt a little small. I even had to check if my nails were clean because it would be embarrassing if I made their cushions dirty or something.
The last time I saw her was during the small wedding reception I had in JB. She looked perfectly normal to me. I remembered her strappy shoes. She told me that the songs I played that night was fantastic.
Those were her last words to me.
Last words that last...
Two of my father's good friends died of cancer.
One was a male lawyer who succumbed to colon cancer in his thirties. At that time, I was in my early teens I think. During his chemo treatment, he'd still go out with my dad and I, to shopping malls just to walk around. The last time we hung out, he had a excretion bag with him. I didn't know what it was at that time. I remember him as a positive and lively person. Even when he was sick, he carried on as usual, drank lots of carrot juice and still had the mood to go out.
His wife and him ended their marriage during his illness. I had a feeling it was his idea. Being a divorcee would sound better than a widow, perhaps. They didn't have any children.
One day, he had to stay in bed, and for many days after that until his last breath. My dad would visit him often. I followed him one time.
He had this hospital bed in his room, with tubes and a machine beside it. He had grown so small. I never apprehended how fragile our bodies could be.
I was alone with him in the room. I just sat beside him and watched him breath heavily and slowly. He looked tired. Then he turned to me and asked me the weirdest question I have ever heard. " Will you call me papa?"
As a pre-teen girl, I was stunned. I hesitated for an answer, but never gave any eventually. That is the biggest regret in my life. I could have made a dying man's dream come true, but I was too naive.
Those were his last words to me.
Another was a lady friend, actually the wife of one of my father's good friends.
Her name was May. She succumbed to lung cancer just a couple of years ago. I never visited her, because the family kept it very private.
I did spend a few good years growing up with her three children. Almost every weekend was spent either at their big luxury home, or at the club, learning tennis and swimming.
They were rich. They lived in a huge bungalow in a prime housing estate and drove luxury cars. Everytime I went to their home, I felt a little small. I even had to check if my nails were clean because it would be embarrassing if I made their cushions dirty or something.
The last time I saw her was during the small wedding reception I had in JB. She looked perfectly normal to me. I remembered her strappy shoes. She told me that the songs I played that night was fantastic.
Those were her last words to me.
Last words that last...
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Nostalgia
Quote of the day: The only people who never fail are those who never try. -Ilka Chase
During the ample time I have while driving to work, my radio is always on, or my iPod. And sometimes, nostalgic songs play that reminds me of a particular emotion I felt before.
My emotions at certain moments in my life are remembered vividly with a song. That's how I associate my memorable emotions with songs that played during an event, or songs that just reminded me of something.
That late 90-s popular hit Mm-bop reminded me of my uni coursemate gang, particularly TJ because he said he loved that song. And it played when we were all in my Proton Wira on the way to class. I miss my gang. We'd walk to class together everyday, in the sun, in the rain without fail during our first semester. Seokshin, Sim, Kenny, TJ, Aiwah and me.
Then, there's Jars of Clay's Frail. A very soothing haunting lullaby that reminded me of the time I was infatuated with a Malay dude named Abang Asfia who later became my boyfriend of 2 months.
At that time, I was also reunited with a childhood friend, Daniel Jackson, who used to live next to me in Springs Garden Malacca, until I moved to Johor at the age of 7. I showed him my panties in his room one day. He loved cats, and would stuff as many kittens he can under his shirt. He once called the fire department to report a fire...for fun. That's my Daniel Jackson.
I found him on stage during a Music Fest in university, playing the drums, and boy was he good. He was also a very dark Indian, BIG, and had blood-shot eyes. I suspect he was on drugs. We chatted for 5 hours at night outside my KK5 block. He asked me if I would consider him if Abang and I are no longer together. I laughed. I can't remember what my answer was.
I never saw him after that. I heard he opened his own band.
Mariah Carey's songs were my favourite. She was hot at that time. I always listened to Close My Eyes when I'm lying on my upper deck bed in dorm, at bedtime.
I played the cassette tape on my Sony cassette tape player. If I turned to look out of my window, I'd always see Kenny and his roomate Jimmy's room. Our blocks face each other. I could also catch TJ sometimes, at his studydesk, wearing a hairband. He had thick black wavy hair. What an envy. He was my Hugh Grant.
Once he left me alone in the dark at a parking lot outside our faculty because he forgot something. It was after a gathering or some kind of meeting, and it was late. He was going to give me a lift back on his bike. It was a cool night. The tree rustled and the breeze swept through in the quiet distance. I stood there and waited. I wasn't scared, though I should've been. I felt safe and was on top of the world because I'd be one of the girl who once rode on TJ's bike.
Then, there's the magical Burn For You by John Farhnam. It played one rainy night, when Paul was lying on my bed asleep, in my room, in the rented double-storey house I shared with 4 guys and 3 other girls during our second year. That was the moment I thought ," This could be something".
Denniam was one of the guys in the house. Sweet gentleman he was. I remember his courage the most and I respect him for it. After I became single again, from the Abang, Denniam wrote me a note which I still keep now, along with many other memorable cards, notes, gifts, autographs etc.
"No matter where you are, what you do, remember that there's a silly guy who loves you"
One of the girls, Irene, is born a nurse. She actually woke me up every 4 hours at night to feed me my antibiotics when I was hit by high fever. I don't know where she is now.
And I will never forget George Michael's rendition of I Can't Make You Love Me. And many of his romantic jazzy songs. YJ and Season was the two most sensitive emotional guys I almost went out with. Throughout my first year, YJ was my emotional whore. Our confidante friendship started on the phone. We'd chat for 4 to 5 hours through the night and it wasn't tiring. It was comfortable. I met him in person for the first time during a get-together where all his friends made fun of the situation and made me guess who the secret caller is. He looked kind. He wasn't the tall dark handsome hunk, but he could communicate. He bought me sparkling diamond pendant, which I don't know if it's real.
I don't know where the pendant is today. He is a doctor now and I attended his wedding about a year ago, and sometimes I still bump into him and his wife in town.
Season was a determined and intense person. We'd listen to new age songs in his Kancil and imagine running through a forest. Very Enigma. He loved arts, drama fashion and music. I remember Chris Isaac's Wicked Games. He picked me some wild flowers and hung them at my doorknob as a surprise. One day, he came by the house and ran up to my room, to find Paul sitting on my floor with his foot stretched out smelling of medicated ointment. I never saw him again.
Some years back, I came across some news of a drama play that he was in. In that play, he man-handled a very pretty actress/model. Recently, I chanced upon his blog. He still look the same. Very arty-farty, more groomed.
Many were sceptical about Paul. He looked like he was going to break my heart in pieces. Everyone was waiting for him to make a mistake.
I saw something else. He is a good man. Kind, responsible, honest and hard-working. He loved me.
I got myself into some trouble tonight
Guess Im just feeling blue
Its been so long since Ive seen your face
This distance between me and you
That voice you showed me is not the one I know
I must be strung out on what I do
Dont hang up again
Theres nothing else I know how to do
But I burn for you
What am I going to do
I burn for you
Burn for you
I guess it feels like youre always alone
And I feel that way too
Its so hard to explain to you
Please understand what I do
But I burn for you
What am I going to do
I burn for you
Burn for you
Took my trouble to a bar tonight
For another point of view
But theres nothing new
Im missing you
But I burn for you
What am I going to do
I burn for you
Burn for you
I stroked his hair and wondered where I'd be in a decade...
During the ample time I have while driving to work, my radio is always on, or my iPod. And sometimes, nostalgic songs play that reminds me of a particular emotion I felt before.
My emotions at certain moments in my life are remembered vividly with a song. That's how I associate my memorable emotions with songs that played during an event, or songs that just reminded me of something.
That late 90-s popular hit Mm-bop reminded me of my uni coursemate gang, particularly TJ because he said he loved that song. And it played when we were all in my Proton Wira on the way to class. I miss my gang. We'd walk to class together everyday, in the sun, in the rain without fail during our first semester. Seokshin, Sim, Kenny, TJ, Aiwah and me.
Then, there's Jars of Clay's Frail. A very soothing haunting lullaby that reminded me of the time I was infatuated with a Malay dude named Abang Asfia who later became my boyfriend of 2 months.
At that time, I was also reunited with a childhood friend, Daniel Jackson, who used to live next to me in Springs Garden Malacca, until I moved to Johor at the age of 7. I showed him my panties in his room one day. He loved cats, and would stuff as many kittens he can under his shirt. He once called the fire department to report a fire...for fun. That's my Daniel Jackson.
I found him on stage during a Music Fest in university, playing the drums, and boy was he good. He was also a very dark Indian, BIG, and had blood-shot eyes. I suspect he was on drugs. We chatted for 5 hours at night outside my KK5 block. He asked me if I would consider him if Abang and I are no longer together. I laughed. I can't remember what my answer was.
I never saw him after that. I heard he opened his own band.
Mariah Carey's songs were my favourite. She was hot at that time. I always listened to Close My Eyes when I'm lying on my upper deck bed in dorm, at bedtime.
I played the cassette tape on my Sony cassette tape player. If I turned to look out of my window, I'd always see Kenny and his roomate Jimmy's room. Our blocks face each other. I could also catch TJ sometimes, at his studydesk, wearing a hairband. He had thick black wavy hair. What an envy. He was my Hugh Grant.
Once he left me alone in the dark at a parking lot outside our faculty because he forgot something. It was after a gathering or some kind of meeting, and it was late. He was going to give me a lift back on his bike. It was a cool night. The tree rustled and the breeze swept through in the quiet distance. I stood there and waited. I wasn't scared, though I should've been. I felt safe and was on top of the world because I'd be one of the girl who once rode on TJ's bike.
Then, there's the magical Burn For You by John Farhnam. It played one rainy night, when Paul was lying on my bed asleep, in my room, in the rented double-storey house I shared with 4 guys and 3 other girls during our second year. That was the moment I thought ," This could be something".
Denniam was one of the guys in the house. Sweet gentleman he was. I remember his courage the most and I respect him for it. After I became single again, from the Abang, Denniam wrote me a note which I still keep now, along with many other memorable cards, notes, gifts, autographs etc.
"No matter where you are, what you do, remember that there's a silly guy who loves you"
One of the girls, Irene, is born a nurse. She actually woke me up every 4 hours at night to feed me my antibiotics when I was hit by high fever. I don't know where she is now.
And I will never forget George Michael's rendition of I Can't Make You Love Me. And many of his romantic jazzy songs. YJ and Season was the two most sensitive emotional guys I almost went out with. Throughout my first year, YJ was my emotional whore. Our confidante friendship started on the phone. We'd chat for 4 to 5 hours through the night and it wasn't tiring. It was comfortable. I met him in person for the first time during a get-together where all his friends made fun of the situation and made me guess who the secret caller is. He looked kind. He wasn't the tall dark handsome hunk, but he could communicate. He bought me sparkling diamond pendant, which I don't know if it's real.
I don't know where the pendant is today. He is a doctor now and I attended his wedding about a year ago, and sometimes I still bump into him and his wife in town.
Season was a determined and intense person. We'd listen to new age songs in his Kancil and imagine running through a forest. Very Enigma. He loved arts, drama fashion and music. I remember Chris Isaac's Wicked Games. He picked me some wild flowers and hung them at my doorknob as a surprise. One day, he came by the house and ran up to my room, to find Paul sitting on my floor with his foot stretched out smelling of medicated ointment. I never saw him again.
Some years back, I came across some news of a drama play that he was in. In that play, he man-handled a very pretty actress/model. Recently, I chanced upon his blog. He still look the same. Very arty-farty, more groomed.
Many were sceptical about Paul. He looked like he was going to break my heart in pieces. Everyone was waiting for him to make a mistake.
I saw something else. He is a good man. Kind, responsible, honest and hard-working. He loved me.
I got myself into some trouble tonight
Guess Im just feeling blue
Its been so long since Ive seen your face
This distance between me and you
That voice you showed me is not the one I know
I must be strung out on what I do
Dont hang up again
Theres nothing else I know how to do
But I burn for you
What am I going to do
I burn for you
Burn for you
I guess it feels like youre always alone
And I feel that way too
Its so hard to explain to you
Please understand what I do
But I burn for you
What am I going to do
I burn for you
Burn for you
Took my trouble to a bar tonight
For another point of view
But theres nothing new
Im missing you
But I burn for you
What am I going to do
I burn for you
Burn for you
I stroked his hair and wondered where I'd be in a decade...
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
Sleep
Last night, Daniel and I watched Baby Mozart, and dozed off at 10.15pm. It's the music, I tell you. It's a rare occasion that I doze off at this godly hour. It felt good knowing I slept a decent amount, but funny leh, while driving to work this morning, I still feel sleepy. Too much sleep I guess.
So, while I slept, Paul took care of everything that I used to be in charge of. He ironed his own shirt, carried the little one back to his own room, set my alarm, charged my mobile phone, and went out to fill up my car.
The little one caressed me before we dozed off, like I was the baby. He has such loving little hands.
What an amazing night, my two favourite boys took care of me... must buy 4D.
So, while I slept, Paul took care of everything that I used to be in charge of. He ironed his own shirt, carried the little one back to his own room, set my alarm, charged my mobile phone, and went out to fill up my car.
The little one caressed me before we dozed off, like I was the baby. He has such loving little hands.
What an amazing night, my two favourite boys took care of me... must buy 4D.
Friday, July 06, 2007
Weekend is coming..again
Today, something caught my attention as I read The Daily Bread, that I would like to share. It starts with a story...
The mayor of a small town in Kentucky stopped mowing his lawn in 2005. He has put up a sign on his property that reads: “There are more important things in life than tall grass.”
He said that he has several reasons for not cutting the grass, one of which is his wife’s death from cancer. That loss caused him to reflect on the priorities of life. He enjoys just sitting in the evenings and observing the wild flowers, squirrels, and birds that are now coming to his yard. A member of the city council remarked, “If he likes it like that, it’s fine. I kind of feel like maybe he is right. Maybe there are more important things than mowing grass.”
Sometimes responsibilities like washing dishes, mowing the lawn, or working extra hours on a project need to wait so that we can spend time with the Lord or family or friends. That may be what’s more important.
So true init. I've never heard anyone saying on their deathbed, "Gee, I wished I spent more time in the office/on golf/drinking with my buddies"
It seems that life's greatest lesson is always learnt when it is a little too late. Let's learn it now, why not...
Hubbie has been in KL this whole week, and I realized it has been some time since we made the trip to Seremban.
So, tomorrow morning, I will be hitching a ride from a friend who is driving to KL to spend the weekend with her husband. Yes, another classic example of couples living apart for work, and for the good of the future.
Initially, I was planning to take the coach. Ah, I miss those Bus Persiaran and the conductors yelling "KL! KL! SEKARANG! VIP SEAT!" at the bus terminal. I thought it would be a fun adventure for Daniel and myself. Heehee. Maybe next time.
Just now, on the phone with him, I got pissed when he said there's a company golf tournament next Saturday. I don't really have much full weekends with him around already, and now he'll be in KL for leisure?
Blah..
The mayor of a small town in Kentucky stopped mowing his lawn in 2005. He has put up a sign on his property that reads: “There are more important things in life than tall grass.”
He said that he has several reasons for not cutting the grass, one of which is his wife’s death from cancer. That loss caused him to reflect on the priorities of life. He enjoys just sitting in the evenings and observing the wild flowers, squirrels, and birds that are now coming to his yard. A member of the city council remarked, “If he likes it like that, it’s fine. I kind of feel like maybe he is right. Maybe there are more important things than mowing grass.”
Sometimes responsibilities like washing dishes, mowing the lawn, or working extra hours on a project need to wait so that we can spend time with the Lord or family or friends. That may be what’s more important.
So true init. I've never heard anyone saying on their deathbed, "Gee, I wished I spent more time in the office/on golf/drinking with my buddies"
It seems that life's greatest lesson is always learnt when it is a little too late. Let's learn it now, why not...
Hubbie has been in KL this whole week, and I realized it has been some time since we made the trip to Seremban.
So, tomorrow morning, I will be hitching a ride from a friend who is driving to KL to spend the weekend with her husband. Yes, another classic example of couples living apart for work, and for the good of the future.
Initially, I was planning to take the coach. Ah, I miss those Bus Persiaran and the conductors yelling "KL! KL! SEKARANG! VIP SEAT!" at the bus terminal. I thought it would be a fun adventure for Daniel and myself. Heehee. Maybe next time.
Just now, on the phone with him, I got pissed when he said there's a company golf tournament next Saturday. I don't really have much full weekends with him around already, and now he'll be in KL for leisure?
Blah..
Tuesday, July 03, 2007
Please Donate to Ally's Home Reno Fund
Quote of the day: He who laughs, lasts -Mary Pettibone Poole
I sprained my neck during my sleep last night. Now, I'm a walking robot.
My faithful IXUS 400 has been giving me tempers. It refused to be detected on my lappie, and the battery life has gone down considerably low which means I can't even snap more than 20 pictures in an hour, let alone a day.
Lately, I have been daydreaming of being on a beautiful beach, and doing nothing but lie in a hammock and listen to the waves. I just want to ... stop moving for a while, you know what I mean. Just stop whatever I do everyday in life.... driving, laundry, cleaning, planning what to wear tomorrow, which bills to pay, bla bla bla. I just want to have a taste of the like-there's-no-tomorrow kind of day.
I have to save up for my house renovation.
!$$$$$$$$$!
These days when I'm driving, especially after work, I notice that I actually make the effort to look around to see other drivers and passagers in other cars. And I'm no longer afraid or shy to look. I'm doing this as an observant citizen who is aware of the surroundings. When I see a car occupied by men only, I get wary. I give them the 'look', as a message that I am watching them and don't be funny with me or anybody else. Gosh, is that safe to do? Am I actually inviting trouble if they are really crooks? *shiver*
I just spent USD110 on 4 magazines on card-making and a Quickutz template set... plus international shipping. And I'm going to spend more on scrapbooking books, just because they're so nice to look at. I guess it could relieve some of my subconscious stress. I'm an incurable online shopaholic and scrapbook junkie, that it's beginning to replace my sexlife I think!
Ouch, my neck!
I sprained my neck during my sleep last night. Now, I'm a walking robot.
My faithful IXUS 400 has been giving me tempers. It refused to be detected on my lappie, and the battery life has gone down considerably low which means I can't even snap more than 20 pictures in an hour, let alone a day.
Lately, I have been daydreaming of being on a beautiful beach, and doing nothing but lie in a hammock and listen to the waves. I just want to ... stop moving for a while, you know what I mean. Just stop whatever I do everyday in life.... driving, laundry, cleaning, planning what to wear tomorrow, which bills to pay, bla bla bla. I just want to have a taste of the like-there's-no-tomorrow kind of day.
I have to save up for my house renovation.
!$$$$$$$$$!
These days when I'm driving, especially after work, I notice that I actually make the effort to look around to see other drivers and passagers in other cars. And I'm no longer afraid or shy to look. I'm doing this as an observant citizen who is aware of the surroundings. When I see a car occupied by men only, I get wary. I give them the 'look', as a message that I am watching them and don't be funny with me or anybody else. Gosh, is that safe to do? Am I actually inviting trouble if they are really crooks? *shiver*
I just spent USD110 on 4 magazines on card-making and a Quickutz template set... plus international shipping. And I'm going to spend more on scrapbooking books, just because they're so nice to look at. I guess it could relieve some of my subconscious stress. I'm an incurable online shopaholic and scrapbook junkie, that it's beginning to replace my sexlife I think!
Ouch, my neck!
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Little Dragon Ladies
Who are they, you may ask?
Maids from China who are known to break marriages by having affairs with the husbands, and dumping them after all their money is used up.
Gosh, I didn't even know China is into the maids business. I'm pretty sure a Chinese maid is efficient, smart, sensible and hardworking... maybe too smart already.
WANITA MCA will agree to allow China maids to be employed if that issue is solved.
WANITA MCA is smart I'd say. Such issues will never be solved. And never ever underestimate what a China woman can do!
Though I am also Chinese, but this is purely a geographical culture difference.
So, would you hire one?
Maids from China who are known to break marriages by having affairs with the husbands, and dumping them after all their money is used up.
Gosh, I didn't even know China is into the maids business. I'm pretty sure a Chinese maid is efficient, smart, sensible and hardworking... maybe too smart already.
WANITA MCA will agree to allow China maids to be employed if that issue is solved.
WANITA MCA is smart I'd say. Such issues will never be solved. And never ever underestimate what a China woman can do!
Though I am also Chinese, but this is purely a geographical culture difference.
So, would you hire one?
Friday, June 22, 2007
Wallop you then you know!
Quote of the day :“If you have never been hated by your child, you have never been a parent.” -Bette Davis
I made a startling discovery few days ago. I am 30 years old, and my right feet is smaller. So is my right breast. And right eye.
How bizarre is that. I'm a walking asymmetrical disaster! With 5 more new shoes... which in the process of buying has led me to this discovery. Money well-spent.
Yesterday, we officially became Chinese parents.
The little one loves washing his hands in the sink, and playing water while at it. I was doing my thing by the kitchen sink, and he was standing on his stool so he was able to reach the sink. There he was, relentlessly playing. I usually give him 5 minutes. Then I say "It's enough. No more washing hands. Go down" He refused, and kept on. I gave him the ultimatum again. He whines pathetically. Usually, my approach is ignore his whining, and giving him the "No" lecture intermittenly, until he stops on his own. With this approach, I hope he learns that he can't get what he want by whining and crying, all acting if I may say.
His father took out the cane, in the form of the feather duster, which I bought initially solely for dusting, and hanging unused since eons. He gave the whiny brat a short and fast stroke on his calf. He was crying for real this time. Now, standing on the floor, both knees slightly bent, he reached for that calf and uttered with his mucus-dripping mouth while sobbing very sadly, "Tong Tong" ( Pain pain in Mandarin).
Talk about pulling parental heartstrings... or rather, maternal. I truly understand the old adage, it hurts you more when you beat your child.
I knew sooner or later, the cane would have to come out. But I am never the one holding it. I am the 'cool down corner' type.
Who's the daddy eh.
It's amazing how a child can forget about it after 5 minutes and continue having a relationship with the cane-holding monster. Of course, every 'lesson' is accompanied by explanation, then kiss and make up.
I understand that Westerners and alike, cannot condone use of physical punishment. Instead, lots of talking and time-out are used, which I agree, support and try to implement. But being Chinese, or Asian for that matter, the cane is still the ultimate disciplinary tool.
Of course, being more educated and modern now, we no longer yell and pull our kids ears in public like what old aunties do in the market. We simply do the lecturing privately. Caning is only reserved for the very serious crime, in the confines of the home. Not because we are afraid of a commonly-used well-known-like-in-America toll free 1800-Saya-Nampak-kanak-kanak-Kena-Dera line, but because we acknowledge and respect the child's pride.
We can't escape our roots.
I think we're on the right track here. He wasn't very whiny anymore after that, in fact he had the take-it-like-a-man kinda attitude.
"NO, I can't destroy your phone? Fine, I'll destroy something else". And walks away with his chin up.
I made a startling discovery few days ago. I am 30 years old, and my right feet is smaller. So is my right breast. And right eye.
How bizarre is that. I'm a walking asymmetrical disaster! With 5 more new shoes... which in the process of buying has led me to this discovery. Money well-spent.
Yesterday, we officially became Chinese parents.
The little one loves washing his hands in the sink, and playing water while at it. I was doing my thing by the kitchen sink, and he was standing on his stool so he was able to reach the sink. There he was, relentlessly playing. I usually give him 5 minutes. Then I say "It's enough. No more washing hands. Go down" He refused, and kept on. I gave him the ultimatum again. He whines pathetically. Usually, my approach is ignore his whining, and giving him the "No" lecture intermittenly, until he stops on his own. With this approach, I hope he learns that he can't get what he want by whining and crying, all acting if I may say.
His father took out the cane, in the form of the feather duster, which I bought initially solely for dusting, and hanging unused since eons. He gave the whiny brat a short and fast stroke on his calf. He was crying for real this time. Now, standing on the floor, both knees slightly bent, he reached for that calf and uttered with his mucus-dripping mouth while sobbing very sadly, "Tong Tong" ( Pain pain in Mandarin).
Talk about pulling parental heartstrings... or rather, maternal. I truly understand the old adage, it hurts you more when you beat your child.
I knew sooner or later, the cane would have to come out. But I am never the one holding it. I am the 'cool down corner' type.
Who's the daddy eh.
It's amazing how a child can forget about it after 5 minutes and continue having a relationship with the cane-holding monster. Of course, every 'lesson' is accompanied by explanation, then kiss and make up.
I understand that Westerners and alike, cannot condone use of physical punishment. Instead, lots of talking and time-out are used, which I agree, support and try to implement. But being Chinese, or Asian for that matter, the cane is still the ultimate disciplinary tool.
Of course, being more educated and modern now, we no longer yell and pull our kids ears in public like what old aunties do in the market. We simply do the lecturing privately. Caning is only reserved for the very serious crime, in the confines of the home. Not because we are afraid of a commonly-used well-known-like-in-America toll free 1800-Saya-Nampak-kanak-kanak-Kena-Dera line, but because we acknowledge and respect the child's pride.
We can't escape our roots.
I think we're on the right track here. He wasn't very whiny anymore after that, in fact he had the take-it-like-a-man kinda attitude.
"NO, I can't destroy your phone? Fine, I'll destroy something else". And walks away with his chin up.
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Quote of the day: The new root of evil is drugs...
... in JB. Possibly monopolized by the organized crime syndicate led by Chinese. Thank you KJ for that interesting article that opened my eyes.
Money no longer make you high.
And Enrique Iglesias is a swinging single again.
*****
We've decided to move to my pre-marital home. My dad has his own pad now, a cozier, easy-to-manage two bedroom townhouse nearer to his office. Once he move into his new pad, we will start refurbishing the old, dirty and dull double-storey suburban terrace house. I'm so excited. I love restoring old stuffs and to make it look new.
It's a logical move. I will be relatively nearer to the causeway. My dad, and mom too, will be able to visit more often. Eventually, my father-in-law will retire and move here, and there will be an extra room for him. And we will hire a maid! Oh, perfect!
1. Replace floor tiles in kitchen and the entire upper floor which is originally parquet. Termites problem.
2. Remove wall cabinets in kitchen, and repaint.
3. Replace cabinet doors under the kitchen counter and sink.
4. Fix new stove.
5. Replace tiles, sink and toilet in master bedroom bathroom. Build a counter and cabinet under the sink.
6. Apply fresh coat of paint on iron grills and walls.
7. Polish marble floor.
I love transformation.
Oh gawd, then comes the millions of little things...
I am tempted to build a small dip pool in the garden area. It'll be tight, but very minimal spa-like. It'll be like Bali right at my doorstep. While I'm at it, might as well, knock down the walls, and build extra space, and 5 more storeys. Then buy my neighbours houses, knock down the walls and *alarm clock rings*
That'll be nice huh. Sometimes, I close my eyes and imagine my dream home makeover, it feels so real it's enough. In my mind, I already own it.
... in JB. Possibly monopolized by the organized crime syndicate led by Chinese. Thank you KJ for that interesting article that opened my eyes.
Money no longer make you high.
And Enrique Iglesias is a swinging single again.
*****
We've decided to move to my pre-marital home. My dad has his own pad now, a cozier, easy-to-manage two bedroom townhouse nearer to his office. Once he move into his new pad, we will start refurbishing the old, dirty and dull double-storey suburban terrace house. I'm so excited. I love restoring old stuffs and to make it look new.
It's a logical move. I will be relatively nearer to the causeway. My dad, and mom too, will be able to visit more often. Eventually, my father-in-law will retire and move here, and there will be an extra room for him. And we will hire a maid! Oh, perfect!
1. Replace floor tiles in kitchen and the entire upper floor which is originally parquet. Termites problem.
2. Remove wall cabinets in kitchen, and repaint.
3. Replace cabinet doors under the kitchen counter and sink.
4. Fix new stove.
5. Replace tiles, sink and toilet in master bedroom bathroom. Build a counter and cabinet under the sink.
6. Apply fresh coat of paint on iron grills and walls.
7. Polish marble floor.
I love transformation.
Oh gawd, then comes the millions of little things...
I am tempted to build a small dip pool in the garden area. It'll be tight, but very minimal spa-like. It'll be like Bali right at my doorstep. While I'm at it, might as well, knock down the walls, and build extra space, and 5 more storeys. Then buy my neighbours houses, knock down the walls and *alarm clock rings*
That'll be nice huh. Sometimes, I close my eyes and imagine my dream home makeover, it feels so real it's enough. In my mind, I already own it.
Thursday, June 14, 2007
Something going on...
I read The Star Online this morning. My heart froze. It's the second case of terror-ride-gang-rape assault THIS WEEK. What made my heart froze was that it happened in Johor Bahru. The places and the roads that are familiar to me. And it happened not at an ungodly hour, but at the hour when the roads are still busy and when people are still seen around.
Before I go on , read this - Another woman gang-raped
Agent Mulder in X-files once said, "To catch a monster, you have to be one".
Or think like one.
Where are the agent mulders in our police force? At least someone has the passion to solve crimes.
What are connection between the two cases? Similar modus operandi. In both cases, there is a man and a woman, in a car. Assailants, in a group of 4, in PARANGS, either ram into victim's car and immobilize it, or attack at a petrol station when the man is out of the car. In both cases, victims were taken on a terror ride to another place, isolated. In both cases, man's leg is slashed when he tried to escape and the woman is gang-raped while he watched helplessly.
Striking similarity if you ask me.
Duh, the police would have figured this out.
Were those victims selected randomly which would be the case of at-the-wrong-place-at-the-wrong-time? Or were they victims of revenge? Or victims of a gang-police showdown?
Why was the abduction committed at a petrol station at 10.30pm when there are people around? Weren't the assailants bothered about witnesses?
Why didn't the assailants kill the victims who could become key witnesses?
Did they let them go so that some kind of 'message' is sent to the police? To the public?
Were the crimes planned by a mastermind? Someone whom the victims offended big-time?
If so, did the mastermind hired a group of foreigners to execute his act of getting even? After all, it's a win-win situation, the mastermind is never revealed, the foreigners get paid a big sum (in their currency perhaps, but peanuts in RM), they commit the crimes quickly, and right now, they are on the way back to their homeland where the police will never find them again.
The victims are left with nothing for justice.
I can't help to speculate that these crimes were committed to 'stir' the Johor Police force. Something going on for sure...
I also can't help but to wonder what took place in the car during the hours of terror-ride? There should be some conversation right? The victims could've asked them why they are doing this. Maybe they were negotiating a deal... a "We'll let you live, if you make the police belive you are raped, make this news BIG, pressure the police, make them see what WE are capable of. BUA HA HA HA HA HA"
Drama drama drama.
But seriously, in times like this, I can't help but prepare myself. I can have all kinds of weapons for defence with me, but will it help keep me alive? And will I be able to think fast enough to react?
The trauma of rape is unimaginable. And I hope it'll never happen to me and my family and friends. But driving pass the roads and the places where it happened, makes me feel eerily close to the crime.
May I survive.
Before I go on , read this - Another woman gang-raped
Agent Mulder in X-files once said, "To catch a monster, you have to be one".
Or think like one.
Where are the agent mulders in our police force? At least someone has the passion to solve crimes.
What are connection between the two cases? Similar modus operandi. In both cases, there is a man and a woman, in a car. Assailants, in a group of 4, in PARANGS, either ram into victim's car and immobilize it, or attack at a petrol station when the man is out of the car. In both cases, victims were taken on a terror ride to another place, isolated. In both cases, man's leg is slashed when he tried to escape and the woman is gang-raped while he watched helplessly.
Striking similarity if you ask me.
Duh, the police would have figured this out.
Were those victims selected randomly which would be the case of at-the-wrong-place-at-the-wrong-time? Or were they victims of revenge? Or victims of a gang-police showdown?
Why was the abduction committed at a petrol station at 10.30pm when there are people around? Weren't the assailants bothered about witnesses?
Why didn't the assailants kill the victims who could become key witnesses?
Did they let them go so that some kind of 'message' is sent to the police? To the public?
Were the crimes planned by a mastermind? Someone whom the victims offended big-time?
If so, did the mastermind hired a group of foreigners to execute his act of getting even? After all, it's a win-win situation, the mastermind is never revealed, the foreigners get paid a big sum (in their currency perhaps, but peanuts in RM), they commit the crimes quickly, and right now, they are on the way back to their homeland where the police will never find them again.
The victims are left with nothing for justice.
I can't help to speculate that these crimes were committed to 'stir' the Johor Police force. Something going on for sure...
I also can't help but to wonder what took place in the car during the hours of terror-ride? There should be some conversation right? The victims could've asked them why they are doing this. Maybe they were negotiating a deal... a "We'll let you live, if you make the police belive you are raped, make this news BIG, pressure the police, make them see what WE are capable of. BUA HA HA HA HA HA"
Drama drama drama.
But seriously, in times like this, I can't help but prepare myself. I can have all kinds of weapons for defence with me, but will it help keep me alive? And will I be able to think fast enough to react?
The trauma of rape is unimaginable. And I hope it'll never happen to me and my family and friends. But driving pass the roads and the places where it happened, makes me feel eerily close to the crime.
May I survive.
Wednesday, June 13, 2007
Women's Best Asset
Quote of the day: Take your work seriously, but never yourself -Dame Margot Fonteyn
By the way, Dame Margot is one of the greatest ballerina in the 1940's. Which reminded me of the time I took ballet classes for a year when I was 10 or so. Everything we wore were baby pink, and I had fun, until I saw the intermediate students wearing this training ballet shoes that was made of wood at the tip so that it trains your toes to point on the floor when you dance. Those were heavy ugly shoes. So I stopped, and studied science instead.
And speaking of shoes, these are what I own. Funny thing is, out of the 14 pairs, I only wear one pair most of the time. I'm a creature of habit, what can I say.
Too many? Too few?
Some time back, I heard this on the radio. A zoo German is hiring clowns to entertain the monkeys and gorillas, because the primates were getting bored, and displaying aggressive behaviours. And in another part of the globe ie. Hollywood, Lindsay Lohan is named the Most Dangerous celebrity, whose bodyguards need bodyguards. One of her bodyguard quit because he has been under tremendous stress to keep her alive during his shift. She does coke, party like there's no tomorrow, and assaults people. She's one wild child, too much money and fame these kids nowadays.
By the way, Dame Margot is one of the greatest ballerina in the 1940's. Which reminded me of the time I took ballet classes for a year when I was 10 or so. Everything we wore were baby pink, and I had fun, until I saw the intermediate students wearing this training ballet shoes that was made of wood at the tip so that it trains your toes to point on the floor when you dance. Those were heavy ugly shoes. So I stopped, and studied science instead.
And speaking of shoes, these are what I own. Funny thing is, out of the 14 pairs, I only wear one pair most of the time. I'm a creature of habit, what can I say.
Too many? Too few?
Some time back, I heard this on the radio. A zoo German is hiring clowns to entertain the monkeys and gorillas, because the primates were getting bored, and displaying aggressive behaviours. And in another part of the globe ie. Hollywood, Lindsay Lohan is named the Most Dangerous celebrity, whose bodyguards need bodyguards. One of her bodyguard quit because he has been under tremendous stress to keep her alive during his shift. She does coke, party like there's no tomorrow, and assaults people. She's one wild child, too much money and fame these kids nowadays.
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Still breathing
Quote of the day: Do something nice for yourself. Do nothing.
Still wondering what is causing my breathlessness and weak state of late, I stayed home yesterday. Doing nothing but watch TV and lying down as much as I like.
It didn't make any difference. So now I know it's not stress.
I went to see the doctor about it. Turns out I have tonsilitis. She gave me a mirror and showed me my swollen tonsils filled with pus. That's funny, I don't feel any sore! I also took a blood count test, which I am anticipating a low white blood count, caused b the infection.
As cliched as it sounds, I realize life is nothing without health. There are so many things I wish I could do, but can't because I'm physically not capable of right now. Any strenuous activity can make me short of breath and light-headed. I'm just not myself.
And because I have come to appreciate what I had, when I get well, I will plan for a short getaway.
In the meantime, I will fight this like a warrior.
At least the little soldier who loves Yakult is giving me support...
Still wondering what is causing my breathlessness and weak state of late, I stayed home yesterday. Doing nothing but watch TV and lying down as much as I like.
It didn't make any difference. So now I know it's not stress.
I went to see the doctor about it. Turns out I have tonsilitis. She gave me a mirror and showed me my swollen tonsils filled with pus. That's funny, I don't feel any sore! I also took a blood count test, which I am anticipating a low white blood count, caused b the infection.
As cliched as it sounds, I realize life is nothing without health. There are so many things I wish I could do, but can't because I'm physically not capable of right now. Any strenuous activity can make me short of breath and light-headed. I'm just not myself.
And because I have come to appreciate what I had, when I get well, I will plan for a short getaway.
In the meantime, I will fight this like a warrior.
At least the little soldier who loves Yakult is giving me support...
Friday, June 08, 2007
Things I Do
IKEA's cardboard chest
MakingMemories Stamping Tool Set
Alphabet stamps, individual letters.
One word set-up
Stamped!
Final work.
MakingMemories Stamping Tool Set
Alphabet stamps, individual letters.
One word set-up
Stamped!
Final work.
Thursday, June 07, 2007
Always...
Quote of the day: Success is simple. Do what's right, the right way, at the right time.
My sickness spell is not over. I remember I said one after the another. This time, I am having dizzy-kindalike-brain-cannot-catch-up-with-my-eyesight spells. Sometimes I even feel like I'm at the verge of a panic attack or a breakdown, like I'm gonna crash and not wake up. I still haven't got my stamina back. What is wrong with me?
Note: I am not pregnant.
I am just tired of life I guess. Always on the move, always something to do, always always always.
The hubbie is also slowing down. He says we need a holiday, to somewhere we can just relax by the pool/beach and rot.
Anyone been to Krabi?
Anyway, there's always one person that I can never get tired of. My dear two-year old sweet boy.
On his birthday, we got him a cake, sang him the b'day song, and he blew two candles... again and again because he enjoys it so much.
Not the typical children's cake as you'd expect, like those Mickey Mouse ThomasNFriends Power Ranger cakes. I end up finishing all of it, in 4 days.
Wo yao kai-kai!
My Dad and I then brought him to Danga Bay later that evening to enjoy the fun fair. But poor thing, because he is still small, he can only watch..
My sickness spell is not over. I remember I said one after the another. This time, I am having dizzy-kindalike-brain-cannot-catch-up-with-my-eyesight spells. Sometimes I even feel like I'm at the verge of a panic attack or a breakdown, like I'm gonna crash and not wake up. I still haven't got my stamina back. What is wrong with me?
Note: I am not pregnant.
I am just tired of life I guess. Always on the move, always something to do, always always always.
The hubbie is also slowing down. He says we need a holiday, to somewhere we can just relax by the pool/beach and rot.
Anyone been to Krabi?
Anyway, there's always one person that I can never get tired of. My dear two-year old sweet boy.
On his birthday, we got him a cake, sang him the b'day song, and he blew two candles... again and again because he enjoys it so much.
Not the typical children's cake as you'd expect, like those Mickey Mouse ThomasNFriends Power Ranger cakes. I end up finishing all of it, in 4 days.
Wo yao kai-kai!
My Dad and I then brought him to Danga Bay later that evening to enjoy the fun fair. But poor thing, because he is still small, he can only watch..
Monday, June 04, 2007
The Magic of 400 Threadcount Sheet
Quote of the day: My idea of housework is to sweep the room with a glance.
When I enter my bedroom, I immediately feel the urge the hibernate. And whenever I am in bed, I don't ever want to get out of it. This is the effect of my new Aussino 400 threadcount bedsheets. I'm just totally konked out by it. As comfortable as sleeping on my own skin. Even the little one is taking longer naps...
It all started when one of my colleagues, an Aussino member who had her birthday last month and who was entitled to 40% discount on regular-priced items, invited me to shop with her. My first Aussino buy. Now I regretted not getting more...
I'm now an Aussino member!
Aussino bedwear and sheet are a lethal-hibernateable combination.
The only thing that can keep me awake, is SEX.... & The City DVDs. Tee hee... So cool, it's a bound book with hard velvet bubblegum pink cover, and it contains the synopsis of all the episodes plus pictures of popular scenes in the series.
Go ahead, indulge in threadcounts...
When I enter my bedroom, I immediately feel the urge the hibernate. And whenever I am in bed, I don't ever want to get out of it. This is the effect of my new Aussino 400 threadcount bedsheets. I'm just totally konked out by it. As comfortable as sleeping on my own skin. Even the little one is taking longer naps...
It all started when one of my colleagues, an Aussino member who had her birthday last month and who was entitled to 40% discount on regular-priced items, invited me to shop with her. My first Aussino buy. Now I regretted not getting more...
I'm now an Aussino member!
Aussino bedwear and sheet are a lethal-hibernateable combination.
The only thing that can keep me awake, is SEX.... & The City DVDs. Tee hee... So cool, it's a bound book with hard velvet bubblegum pink cover, and it contains the synopsis of all the episodes plus pictures of popular scenes in the series.
Go ahead, indulge in threadcounts...
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Advanced Birthday Presie
Daniel will celebrate his second birthday this Friday! Tomorrow is a public holiday in Singapore (Wesak Day.... yes, different holidays for Malaysia and Singapura), I'll take leave on Friday, and that makes it a looooong weekend!
Anyway, one of the packages I received from Amazon were also baby einstein DVDs. I bought the first one, the Numbers Nursery in Gramophone, S'pore. SGD34!! NOT cheap for a half an hour show, but they have some bonus materials in the disc also la, which are extra learning short sessions. The little one sat still throughout the entire show. Now, he actually remembers the sequence.
Baby Einstein award-winning educational show for infants and toddlers. Highly recommended!
I wonder if he concentrates this hard in school next time.
That's not all!
Play-Doh is fascinating! It's smoooooooth, non-toxic, and doesn't leave the waxy feeling on your hands after playing with it.
The ultimate desk! Bought from Toys R Us.
Baby Gap classic white-schoolshoes canvas lace-ups. It's still a lil' bit large for him though, but I couldn't resist!
More show-n-tell coming right up!
Anyway, one of the packages I received from Amazon were also baby einstein DVDs. I bought the first one, the Numbers Nursery in Gramophone, S'pore. SGD34!! NOT cheap for a half an hour show, but they have some bonus materials in the disc also la, which are extra learning short sessions. The little one sat still throughout the entire show. Now, he actually remembers the sequence.
Baby Einstein award-winning educational show for infants and toddlers. Highly recommended!
I wonder if he concentrates this hard in school next time.
That's not all!
Play-Doh is fascinating! It's smoooooooth, non-toxic, and doesn't leave the waxy feeling on your hands after playing with it.
The ultimate desk! Bought from Toys R Us.
Baby Gap classic white-schoolshoes canvas lace-ups. It's still a lil' bit large for him though, but I couldn't resist!
More show-n-tell coming right up!
Monday, May 28, 2007
Another weekend
Quote of the day: Knowledge comes, but wisdom stays.
Yet another weekend gone in a blink of an eye. But it was good nonetheless. I am feeling a lot better than the past couple of weeks. I had the haircut I wanted and boy do I feel so light and bouncy! Finally, I cut off my old curls that were getting draggy.
I love Photo Booth in the Mac! Just took this a few seconds ago!
My exciting weekend started with a visit to a friend's baby's full month party. Paul's friends actually. The guy used to be JB's most notorious bachelor, and the girl was a decent part-time model. Beautiful couple I would say. So, when their baby arrived, everybody wants to see the 'product'. Ok la, still too small. I forgot how newborns look like, gosh they are so tiny! Newborns are actually much robust than they look. That is why you see the infant ward nurses scooping the newborns in the speed of light and changing their nappies in 5 seconds. I remember I was horrified and amazed at the same time watching the nurses clean the babies up. So pro!
The next day, dinner was served at the convenience of my neighbour's open house party. Renovated-new-house party to be exact. Now, my house, beside it, look like the original unattractive dull house from the outside. Sigh... REVAMP!! REVAMP!!
It was a cool fun evening and we practically owned the Jalan Gunung 37.
Next day, the hubbie left for KL early in the morning. I had cravings for strawberry jam and butter sandwich. So off to Tesco I went. I bought a toaster, a RM19.90 Global brand two-slice regular toaster. Damn cheap! This is the first electrical item I bought with cash siah! I also learnt that Tesco manufactures panty-liners too! Cheaper summore.
I can't get rid of the shopping bug. I think I will do more damage these few days...
Yet another weekend gone in a blink of an eye. But it was good nonetheless. I am feeling a lot better than the past couple of weeks. I had the haircut I wanted and boy do I feel so light and bouncy! Finally, I cut off my old curls that were getting draggy.
I love Photo Booth in the Mac! Just took this a few seconds ago!
My exciting weekend started with a visit to a friend's baby's full month party. Paul's friends actually. The guy used to be JB's most notorious bachelor, and the girl was a decent part-time model. Beautiful couple I would say. So, when their baby arrived, everybody wants to see the 'product'. Ok la, still too small. I forgot how newborns look like, gosh they are so tiny! Newborns are actually much robust than they look. That is why you see the infant ward nurses scooping the newborns in the speed of light and changing their nappies in 5 seconds. I remember I was horrified and amazed at the same time watching the nurses clean the babies up. So pro!
The next day, dinner was served at the convenience of my neighbour's open house party. Renovated-new-house party to be exact. Now, my house, beside it, look like the original unattractive dull house from the outside. Sigh... REVAMP!! REVAMP!!
It was a cool fun evening and we practically owned the Jalan Gunung 37.
Next day, the hubbie left for KL early in the morning. I had cravings for strawberry jam and butter sandwich. So off to Tesco I went. I bought a toaster, a RM19.90 Global brand two-slice regular toaster. Damn cheap! This is the first electrical item I bought with cash siah! I also learnt that Tesco manufactures panty-liners too! Cheaper summore.
I can't get rid of the shopping bug. I think I will do more damage these few days...
Thursday, May 24, 2007
Parenting.com
Outsmart Your Toddler: 5 tricks for getting yours to do what you want
By Deborah Carpenter
The battle lines were drawn: It was me against him. And he, my 2-year-old, was a formidable opponent. I lay in wait by the stairs, a pair of size-2T sweatpants clutched to my chest. Catching Kevin and wrestling him into his clothes reminded me of the day I tried (and failed) to catch a greased piglet at a county fair. At least with Kevin I didn't have to worry I'd end up face-down in the mud. Suddenly, my slippery little boy popped up from behind the relative safety of the sofa. Our eyes met. He squealed and bolted for the kitchen. Game on!
Somehow, my master's degree in psychology had lulled me into the mistaken notion that motherhood would be a piece of cake. I knew the latest child-rearing theories. I'd handle behavior problems with finesse.
Ha.
Never did I envision how challenging raising a stubborn and feisty toddler would be. Thankfully, I've now learned several great toddler-taming strategies that work quite well. Sometimes, I've found, you need to save the "I am the parent! Do as I say!" approach and try a little creative thinking.
Act like an idiot
"Even the most defiant toddler will take pity on us if we seem like total incompetents," says Harvey Karp, M.D., author of the DVD and book "The Happiest Toddler on the Block." The trick is to convince your child that you should be helped, not resisted:
• Be forgetful. If she's refusing to put away her toys, pick up a few and put them not in the toy box but in some other unexpected place, like the bathtub or a kitchen cabinet. When your child balks (she knows where things belong, even as young as 2), say innocently, "What? I'm putting your toys in your toy box!" She'll likely take pity on you and help you put her stuff where it really belongs. (Parenting.com: "I did it myself!" )
• Be wrong. Next time you foresee a battle getting your toddler in the stroller, try squeezing into it yourself. Chances are good she'll announce, "That's mine!" Finally her possessive streak is good for something.
• Be incompetent. Put your coat on backward and place your shoes on your hands. Say, "I'm ready to go, are you?" She'll laugh, straighten you out, and get her own shoes on for once.
Don't worry: Your child won't really think you're a boob, says Dr. Karp. This is just a fun tactic, like playing hide-and-seek and pretending you can't find her.
Become a silver-lining expert
Want to avoid disaster? Pretend everything's great. Your attitude, and the way you handle disappointments (big and small), can greatly affect how your child learns to do the same.
• Use positive language. The right words can lessen the blow of letdowns and make mundane tasks seem interesting and fun. For instance, the day 3-year-old Josh Boswell had been looking forward to going to the playground, it rained. Rather than let him sulk and stomp angrily around the house, his mom, Sue, of Pepperell, Massachusetts, said, "This rain is wonderful! Now we get a chance to have that indoor picnic I've been planning for you." Josh was intrigued -- an indoor picnic sounded at least as much fun as going to the playground. "Turning disappointment into delight is part of the magic of being a parent," says his mom. "The silver lining is almost always there. You just have to learn to point it out." (Parenting.com: Raise a kid who bounces back )
• Teach your child to look on the bright side himself. If things don't go right (the cupcakes fell on the floor or his best friend isn't at preschool that day), ask him to think up something good about the bad situation. He might say he's looking forward to using a different icing color or that now he can draw a "get well soon" picture for his pal (you might need to coach him at first). Play this game often and your child will automatically learn to look for the silver lining.
Try reverse psychology
You say "yes," she says "no!" You say "no," she says "yes!" This verbal tug-of-war is frustrating, but actually it's a healthy declaration of her growing independence.
There's even an official name for this stage. "When your child doesn't want to wear certain clothes or taste new foods, it's called 'the oppositionalism of toddlerhood,'" says Laurence Steinberg, Ph.D., author of "The Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting."
The solution? If you want your child to do something, like put on her socks, pretend you don't want her to do it.
One strategy I used to get my daughter, Kaylin, then 2, to try new foods was to deny her first few requests for them. At dinner I'd put two foods on her plate and four foods on the grown-up plates. She'd stare longingly at our full plates and say, "Me want that!" I'd reply, "Sorry, pumpkin. These foods are for grown-ups." She'd keep asking, and as she started to get frustrated, I'd ask, "Do you really think you're old enough?" She'd shout, "Yes!" and scoot over, holding out her plate. She couldn't eat her broccoli fast enough.
And when I want Kevin, now 3, to get ready quickly, I pretend I'm in a big rush. "Me come, too?" he'll ask. "No, honey, Mommy's in a hurry today. Why don't you stay here with Daddy instead?" My son, who always prefers an adventure to staying home, will dash off to the closet to get his shoes and jacket. When he returns, I say, "I'm not sure you can get ready in time to come with me." That gets him to start hurriedly shoving his little arms into his jacket sleeves -- and then I say, "Wow, you really can get ready quickly!" He beams with pride and allows me to finish zipping him up in record time. Say goodbye to the old capture-Kevin-and-yank-his-clothes-on-while-pinning-him-to-the-floor maneuver.
Reverse psychology works by using your toddler's natural desire for independence (also known as defiance) to get what you both want. Just be sure to use it in a playful way -- and not so often that he gets wise to you!
Say, "Yes, but..."
Amanda Paolucci of Newington, Connecticut, loved playing outside when she was a toddler. She'd press her nose against the screen door and plead to go out. "She'd throw a colossal fit if I refused to let her," says her mom, Julie. But once Paolucci learned the "Yes, but..." trick, Amanda's tantrums subsided. Instead of saying no all the time, Paolucci now says, "Yes, Amanda, you may go outside, but after dinner." Or "Yes, you may ride your big wheel, but we need to wait for the rain to stop."
Toddlers are a lot more cooperative if they just know when they can do whatever it is they want. The younger your child, the less patience she'll have to wait. So sidetrack her opposition by offering up another activity with your "Yes, but." You could say, "Yes, you may have a cookie, but first we're going to make dinner together," or "Yes, we can watch Dora, as soon as we've picked up your toys." She'll fight a "no" -- a "yes, but" is harder to resist. (Parenting.com: Little hands, big help)
Stay a step ahead
Although most toddler battles are caused by hunger, fatigue, or frustration, it's easier to recognize those things after a tantrum starts -- and after a few slices of apple would have saved the day. So staying a step ahead of your child is not a quick solution so much as a smart way of thinking. It comes down to consistent routines and reasonable expectations, so you don't have to be a toddler mind reader. Keeping your child on an even keel can be relatively simple: Try to make his basic needs -- food, sleep -- a priority, and not something you squeeze into a busy day. (Parenting.com: Tantrums 101)
• Put him down for a nap before he seems super tired.
• Feed him several small meals to keep his blood sugar (and mood) level.
• Give him plenty of encouragement -- he'll be less inclined to flip out when something goes wrong or he doesn't get his way. But also think twice before you make life unnecessarily hard on him. If you're thinking of braving the mall with a tired child -- don't. The notion "maybe I can just squeeze in one more errand" has been the downfall of many otherwise rational moms. Some of my finest parenting moments (and by finest I mean horrifying and humiliating) have had me half-dragging, half-wrestling my thrashing, wailing, screeching toddler out of Wal-Mart. After public tantrum #36, I finally caught on to the idea of setting limits -- for me. I now limit toddler-accompanied outings to less than two hours.
Of course, if you have a toddler, you've already learned that life rarely goes as planned. So, here's one last trick to try on yourself: Act as if you know what to do -- and soon enough, you will!
By Deborah Carpenter
The battle lines were drawn: It was me against him. And he, my 2-year-old, was a formidable opponent. I lay in wait by the stairs, a pair of size-2T sweatpants clutched to my chest. Catching Kevin and wrestling him into his clothes reminded me of the day I tried (and failed) to catch a greased piglet at a county fair. At least with Kevin I didn't have to worry I'd end up face-down in the mud. Suddenly, my slippery little boy popped up from behind the relative safety of the sofa. Our eyes met. He squealed and bolted for the kitchen. Game on!
Somehow, my master's degree in psychology had lulled me into the mistaken notion that motherhood would be a piece of cake. I knew the latest child-rearing theories. I'd handle behavior problems with finesse.
Ha.
Never did I envision how challenging raising a stubborn and feisty toddler would be. Thankfully, I've now learned several great toddler-taming strategies that work quite well. Sometimes, I've found, you need to save the "I am the parent! Do as I say!" approach and try a little creative thinking.
Act like an idiot
"Even the most defiant toddler will take pity on us if we seem like total incompetents," says Harvey Karp, M.D., author of the DVD and book "The Happiest Toddler on the Block." The trick is to convince your child that you should be helped, not resisted:
• Be forgetful. If she's refusing to put away her toys, pick up a few and put them not in the toy box but in some other unexpected place, like the bathtub or a kitchen cabinet. When your child balks (she knows where things belong, even as young as 2), say innocently, "What? I'm putting your toys in your toy box!" She'll likely take pity on you and help you put her stuff where it really belongs. (Parenting.com: "I did it myself!" )
• Be wrong. Next time you foresee a battle getting your toddler in the stroller, try squeezing into it yourself. Chances are good she'll announce, "That's mine!" Finally her possessive streak is good for something.
• Be incompetent. Put your coat on backward and place your shoes on your hands. Say, "I'm ready to go, are you?" She'll laugh, straighten you out, and get her own shoes on for once.
Don't worry: Your child won't really think you're a boob, says Dr. Karp. This is just a fun tactic, like playing hide-and-seek and pretending you can't find her.
Become a silver-lining expert
Want to avoid disaster? Pretend everything's great. Your attitude, and the way you handle disappointments (big and small), can greatly affect how your child learns to do the same.
• Use positive language. The right words can lessen the blow of letdowns and make mundane tasks seem interesting and fun. For instance, the day 3-year-old Josh Boswell had been looking forward to going to the playground, it rained. Rather than let him sulk and stomp angrily around the house, his mom, Sue, of Pepperell, Massachusetts, said, "This rain is wonderful! Now we get a chance to have that indoor picnic I've been planning for you." Josh was intrigued -- an indoor picnic sounded at least as much fun as going to the playground. "Turning disappointment into delight is part of the magic of being a parent," says his mom. "The silver lining is almost always there. You just have to learn to point it out." (Parenting.com: Raise a kid who bounces back )
• Teach your child to look on the bright side himself. If things don't go right (the cupcakes fell on the floor or his best friend isn't at preschool that day), ask him to think up something good about the bad situation. He might say he's looking forward to using a different icing color or that now he can draw a "get well soon" picture for his pal (you might need to coach him at first). Play this game often and your child will automatically learn to look for the silver lining.
Try reverse psychology
You say "yes," she says "no!" You say "no," she says "yes!" This verbal tug-of-war is frustrating, but actually it's a healthy declaration of her growing independence.
There's even an official name for this stage. "When your child doesn't want to wear certain clothes or taste new foods, it's called 'the oppositionalism of toddlerhood,'" says Laurence Steinberg, Ph.D., author of "The Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting."
The solution? If you want your child to do something, like put on her socks, pretend you don't want her to do it.
One strategy I used to get my daughter, Kaylin, then 2, to try new foods was to deny her first few requests for them. At dinner I'd put two foods on her plate and four foods on the grown-up plates. She'd stare longingly at our full plates and say, "Me want that!" I'd reply, "Sorry, pumpkin. These foods are for grown-ups." She'd keep asking, and as she started to get frustrated, I'd ask, "Do you really think you're old enough?" She'd shout, "Yes!" and scoot over, holding out her plate. She couldn't eat her broccoli fast enough.
And when I want Kevin, now 3, to get ready quickly, I pretend I'm in a big rush. "Me come, too?" he'll ask. "No, honey, Mommy's in a hurry today. Why don't you stay here with Daddy instead?" My son, who always prefers an adventure to staying home, will dash off to the closet to get his shoes and jacket. When he returns, I say, "I'm not sure you can get ready in time to come with me." That gets him to start hurriedly shoving his little arms into his jacket sleeves -- and then I say, "Wow, you really can get ready quickly!" He beams with pride and allows me to finish zipping him up in record time. Say goodbye to the old capture-Kevin-and-yank-his-clothes-on-while-pinning-him-to-the-floor maneuver.
Reverse psychology works by using your toddler's natural desire for independence (also known as defiance) to get what you both want. Just be sure to use it in a playful way -- and not so often that he gets wise to you!
Say, "Yes, but..."
Amanda Paolucci of Newington, Connecticut, loved playing outside when she was a toddler. She'd press her nose against the screen door and plead to go out. "She'd throw a colossal fit if I refused to let her," says her mom, Julie. But once Paolucci learned the "Yes, but..." trick, Amanda's tantrums subsided. Instead of saying no all the time, Paolucci now says, "Yes, Amanda, you may go outside, but after dinner." Or "Yes, you may ride your big wheel, but we need to wait for the rain to stop."
Toddlers are a lot more cooperative if they just know when they can do whatever it is they want. The younger your child, the less patience she'll have to wait. So sidetrack her opposition by offering up another activity with your "Yes, but." You could say, "Yes, you may have a cookie, but first we're going to make dinner together," or "Yes, we can watch Dora, as soon as we've picked up your toys." She'll fight a "no" -- a "yes, but" is harder to resist. (Parenting.com: Little hands, big help)
Stay a step ahead
Although most toddler battles are caused by hunger, fatigue, or frustration, it's easier to recognize those things after a tantrum starts -- and after a few slices of apple would have saved the day. So staying a step ahead of your child is not a quick solution so much as a smart way of thinking. It comes down to consistent routines and reasonable expectations, so you don't have to be a toddler mind reader. Keeping your child on an even keel can be relatively simple: Try to make his basic needs -- food, sleep -- a priority, and not something you squeeze into a busy day. (Parenting.com: Tantrums 101)
• Put him down for a nap before he seems super tired.
• Feed him several small meals to keep his blood sugar (and mood) level.
• Give him plenty of encouragement -- he'll be less inclined to flip out when something goes wrong or he doesn't get his way. But also think twice before you make life unnecessarily hard on him. If you're thinking of braving the mall with a tired child -- don't. The notion "maybe I can just squeeze in one more errand" has been the downfall of many otherwise rational moms. Some of my finest parenting moments (and by finest I mean horrifying and humiliating) have had me half-dragging, half-wrestling my thrashing, wailing, screeching toddler out of Wal-Mart. After public tantrum #36, I finally caught on to the idea of setting limits -- for me. I now limit toddler-accompanied outings to less than two hours.
Of course, if you have a toddler, you've already learned that life rarely goes as planned. So, here's one last trick to try on yourself: Act as if you know what to do -- and soon enough, you will!
Sick of sick
Quote of the day: Planning for happiness is rarely successful. Happiness just happens.
These days, and frankly speaking, since as long as I remember, I haven't been in perfect health.
Perfect health to me, is being happy and passionate about everything all the time, enough stamina ( to shop ) and a good undisturbed sleep. These days, I lack all of the above.
The only common cause of my disturbed sleep is a nose block, which happens once in a long while. Then weeks ago, it was my cough that became evil. I had sleepless nights twice in a row. Then it went away. Just when I thought I can finally enjoy a good sleep, I woke up middle of last night... with a headache! Odd things are happening to me. On top of that, I have this stomach muscle-tightness-heartburn-like ache and it makes me weak, like I'm going to lao sai, but never did.
I'm angry and sick of feeling sick.
When is this all going to end. It seems like the ailments are coming one after next. Like a spell.
Things that excites me no longer have that effect. All the scrapbooking goodies I was so crazy about, now just sits pretty in my little art workshop. I took a glance at them, and sigh, and walked away. I have no inspiration, no passion.
I just want to sleep until I am contented. Perhaps, all those disturbed sleep is taking its toll on my body.
My sweet husband asked me today, "Darling, you want to go holiday? Somewhere relaxing like an island, or bangkok. You decide" That was sweet of him for even asking. Maybe he thinks I'm stressed.
Truth is, I'm not stressed at work. It's giving me life! It's not like I have to handle million dollar accounts and answer 1000 emails a day. Yes, thank you Molly and Sim for that interesting article of a lady who died of working too hard. So, no way I am stressed at work.
Hubbie may be right. A short getaway might do the trick. But no mood...
These days, and frankly speaking, since as long as I remember, I haven't been in perfect health.
Perfect health to me, is being happy and passionate about everything all the time, enough stamina ( to shop ) and a good undisturbed sleep. These days, I lack all of the above.
The only common cause of my disturbed sleep is a nose block, which happens once in a long while. Then weeks ago, it was my cough that became evil. I had sleepless nights twice in a row. Then it went away. Just when I thought I can finally enjoy a good sleep, I woke up middle of last night... with a headache! Odd things are happening to me. On top of that, I have this stomach muscle-tightness-heartburn-like ache and it makes me weak, like I'm going to lao sai, but never did.
I'm angry and sick of feeling sick.
When is this all going to end. It seems like the ailments are coming one after next. Like a spell.
Things that excites me no longer have that effect. All the scrapbooking goodies I was so crazy about, now just sits pretty in my little art workshop. I took a glance at them, and sigh, and walked away. I have no inspiration, no passion.
I just want to sleep until I am contented. Perhaps, all those disturbed sleep is taking its toll on my body.
My sweet husband asked me today, "Darling, you want to go holiday? Somewhere relaxing like an island, or bangkok. You decide" That was sweet of him for even asking. Maybe he thinks I'm stressed.
Truth is, I'm not stressed at work. It's giving me life! It's not like I have to handle million dollar accounts and answer 1000 emails a day. Yes, thank you Molly and Sim for that interesting article of a lady who died of working too hard. So, no way I am stressed at work.
Hubbie may be right. A short getaway might do the trick. But no mood...
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Fashion Bug
Quote of the day: “Sex appeal is 50 percent what you’ve got and 50 percent what people think you’ve got.” -Sophia Loren
This legendary Italian Oscar-winner movie star quips about her voluptuous figure "Everything you see, I owe to spaghetti". She's one smart and witty actress.
Being a typical girl who likes fashion, I love reading fashion magazines. I love (looking at ) beautiful clothes and shoes, and bags and accesories. But I have a boring wardrobe! Boring T-shirts, boring colours! Then again, if I had fancy clothes, I still wouldn't wear them on a regular basis, like you now how some people just dress up nicely, to them, it's like drinking water. I can't do it. I'm chicken! I'll stick to magazines... By the way, the Great Singapore Sale is around the corner!
This legendary Italian Oscar-winner movie star quips about her voluptuous figure "Everything you see, I owe to spaghetti". She's one smart and witty actress.
Being a typical girl who likes fashion, I love reading fashion magazines. I love (looking at ) beautiful clothes and shoes, and bags and accesories. But I have a boring wardrobe! Boring T-shirts, boring colours! Then again, if I had fancy clothes, I still wouldn't wear them on a regular basis, like you now how some people just dress up nicely, to them, it's like drinking water. I can't do it. I'm chicken! I'll stick to magazines... By the way, the Great Singapore Sale is around the corner!
Monday, May 21, 2007
Just Another Day
Quote of the day: Junk is something you’ve kept for years and throw away three weeks before you need it
I am eagerly waiting for sex.
Sex & The City DVDs that is. The complete series giftset comes in a delicious must-have pink box, and it's definitely worth keeping as a collector's item. That's why instead of conveniently getting them from Holiday Plaza, the pirated haven, I righteously bought it from Amazon. I can feel it reaching the shores of Singapore!
I want:
1. A haircut, or change of hairstyle.
2. A clamshell/flip phone.
3. A new camera.
4. A Canon Selphy photo printer.
5. A website to sell my greeting cards.
I am eagerly waiting for sex.
Sex & The City DVDs that is. The complete series giftset comes in a delicious must-have pink box, and it's definitely worth keeping as a collector's item. That's why instead of conveniently getting them from Holiday Plaza, the pirated haven, I righteously bought it from Amazon. I can feel it reaching the shores of Singapore!
I want:
1. A haircut, or change of hairstyle.
2. A clamshell/flip phone.
3. A new camera.
4. A Canon Selphy photo printer.
5. A website to sell my greeting cards.
Thursday, May 17, 2007
Quote of the day: Thou shalt not weigh more than thy fridge.
Sigh, I wished I could weigh even half my fridge! I look like I lost weight, because of the bad cough, the restricted diet ( strictly no chicken and eggs, and spicy food) and the disturbed sleeps, not to mention I'm limited to one or two positions during sleep because it's painful when I lie down. The doctor said I probably pulled some muscle when I coughed too hard. Another round of medication... this time, inflammatory tablets and cough relief lozenges. The pain subsided... Hallelujah!
On another note, I watched Martha Stewart's show some many weeks ago, and she shared one of her skincare regime. She applies Johnson&Johnson's baby oil on her face after removing all her make up before going to bed. Two days ago, I decided to do it. I took a small bottle from Daniel's Johnson&Johnson's bath set. I also applied a small amount onto the front of my legs, below the knee, the dryest part of my body by far. The resutls? Very positive! Why didn't I think of it! Baby oil is probably the most natural way to moisturize and keep your skin smooth. And I was surprised that it smells pleasant too, almost like a baby.
And the cost is waaaaaay lower than SKII. Actually I should be applying it during office hours since it's air-conditioned here. I wonder if my face would look like a kuali.
Sigh, I wished I could weigh even half my fridge! I look like I lost weight, because of the bad cough, the restricted diet ( strictly no chicken and eggs, and spicy food) and the disturbed sleeps, not to mention I'm limited to one or two positions during sleep because it's painful when I lie down. The doctor said I probably pulled some muscle when I coughed too hard. Another round of medication... this time, inflammatory tablets and cough relief lozenges. The pain subsided... Hallelujah!
On another note, I watched Martha Stewart's show some many weeks ago, and she shared one of her skincare regime. She applies Johnson&Johnson's baby oil on her face after removing all her make up before going to bed. Two days ago, I decided to do it. I took a small bottle from Daniel's Johnson&Johnson's bath set. I also applied a small amount onto the front of my legs, below the knee, the dryest part of my body by far. The resutls? Very positive! Why didn't I think of it! Baby oil is probably the most natural way to moisturize and keep your skin smooth. And I was surprised that it smells pleasant too, almost like a baby.
And the cost is waaaaaay lower than SKII. Actually I should be applying it during office hours since it's air-conditioned here. I wonder if my face would look like a kuali.
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
Gloomy Day
Quote of the day: “Red meat is not bad for you. Now blue-green meat, that’s bad for you!” -Tommy Smothers
I hate being a prepaid user because I couldn't send the Class 95 radio DJ a flirty SMS when asked to. And I AM the Queen of flirty SMSes. Damn. Anyway, I heard this joke :
A man was setting up his PC account while his wife sat next to him and he had to choose a password. Wanting to be macho and all, he typed 'penis'. When the next error window appeared, his wife laughed and fell off the chair. That error window wrote "PASSWORD TOO SHORT"
I hate being a prepaid user because I couldn't send the Class 95 radio DJ a flirty SMS when asked to. And I AM the Queen of flirty SMSes. Damn. Anyway, I heard this joke :
A man was setting up his PC account while his wife sat next to him and he had to choose a password. Wanting to be macho and all, he typed 'penis'. When the next error window appeared, his wife laughed and fell off the chair. That error window wrote "PASSWORD TOO SHORT"
Monday, May 14, 2007
I Was Young Again
Quote of the day: Opportunities always look bigger going than coming.
The last time I felt like I was in my early twenties, was when I could dance till 3am while breathing in a smoke-filled congested dance floor with music thumping through my internal organs, and NOT feel worn out. The last time was on Friday night at Ministry of Sound. It was invigorating! And friends always welcome a designated driver since I am alcohol intolerant. Malunya! Anyway, it was a good quick wake-me-up amidst my mundane life. But bad coughing bouts followed. Not good at all. The pain in my right chest is growing stronger as I cough.
The next day, my dad drove Daniel and I to Desaru beach to join a Lion's Club charity outing with some inmates from the Chesire Home and a calvary girl's home. Not very sunny, and tide was a little high. And because we only stepped onto the beach at 6pm, we could only spend an hour playing before it got dark and cold.
Then during dinner, some performances were put up by the inmates, where one Malay dude from Chesire Home sang a supposedly sad song, which had lyrics something like " Bapaku kahwin lagi".... "Rumahtangga porak-peranda..."
Then there's this Chinese dude who sang 'Chan Mali Chan', and changed the entire songs as he like. "Dimana dia, buah hati saya..... dia tak pakai baju..."
Migod. Anyway, we all burst into laughter. At that point, I realize I was taking life too seriously. There was something about that night that taught me something, or at least, reminded me of something. Nobody was embarrased to stand on the small wooden stage and sing and dance. They weren't professional entertainers, they didn't sing Grammy-worth songs or danced like Justin Timberlake. It was all so... simple and innocent. I miss that.
Mother's Day was next, and it was a day of eating. First, lunch at a new Japanese buffet restaurant. Not bad. Daniel had coffee cakes and was running around after that. Aww, he takes after me. The back to mom's place for a nap. Off to dinner at another new restaurant, Korean BBQ. Not bad as well, and kids-friendly, meaning they have a little corner for toys, and plenty of room to run around.
The side dishes spread.
Delicious pork belly!
Curious and hungry.
The last time I felt like I was in my early twenties, was when I could dance till 3am while breathing in a smoke-filled congested dance floor with music thumping through my internal organs, and NOT feel worn out. The last time was on Friday night at Ministry of Sound. It was invigorating! And friends always welcome a designated driver since I am alcohol intolerant. Malunya! Anyway, it was a good quick wake-me-up amidst my mundane life. But bad coughing bouts followed. Not good at all. The pain in my right chest is growing stronger as I cough.
The next day, my dad drove Daniel and I to Desaru beach to join a Lion's Club charity outing with some inmates from the Chesire Home and a calvary girl's home. Not very sunny, and tide was a little high. And because we only stepped onto the beach at 6pm, we could only spend an hour playing before it got dark and cold.
Then during dinner, some performances were put up by the inmates, where one Malay dude from Chesire Home sang a supposedly sad song, which had lyrics something like " Bapaku kahwin lagi".... "Rumahtangga porak-peranda..."
Then there's this Chinese dude who sang 'Chan Mali Chan', and changed the entire songs as he like. "Dimana dia, buah hati saya..... dia tak pakai baju..."
Migod. Anyway, we all burst into laughter. At that point, I realize I was taking life too seriously. There was something about that night that taught me something, or at least, reminded me of something. Nobody was embarrased to stand on the small wooden stage and sing and dance. They weren't professional entertainers, they didn't sing Grammy-worth songs or danced like Justin Timberlake. It was all so... simple and innocent. I miss that.
Mother's Day was next, and it was a day of eating. First, lunch at a new Japanese buffet restaurant. Not bad. Daniel had coffee cakes and was running around after that. Aww, he takes after me. The back to mom's place for a nap. Off to dinner at another new restaurant, Korean BBQ. Not bad as well, and kids-friendly, meaning they have a little corner for toys, and plenty of room to run around.
The side dishes spread.
Delicious pork belly!
Curious and hungry.
Friday, May 11, 2007
The Eagle Has Landed!
Quote of the day: Nobody cares if you can’t dance well. Just get up and dance.
Yesterday, my package arrived from the US of A ( I just love Borat). I can't remember when was the last time I was happy like a little girl. Online shopping is indeed THE retail therapy.
Since I so bo-liao, I will share the visuals. But hubby has the camera in Beijing, so mua had to settle with my camera phone.
My package
Ribbons
Chipboard Goodie Boxes
I opened the packets and displayed all the chipboards on my dining table. Go ahead and laugh.
Notecards
Now comes the toughest part. How do I use them. They're so pretty I just want to display them on my table solely for admiring!
I also bought these stamping tools, with rubber alphabet stamp set. I will post more about this new toy.
In case you're wondering, what are all those rubbish for? Well, in America especially, many stay-at-home moms indulge in this highly creative hobby called scrapbooking. It's been around for a long time I guess, and it's only getting more popular here in Singapore, and maaaaaaybe Malaysia. But not quite, because those 'rubbish' are not cheap here after the currency conversion. But if you're living in America, these things are like normal grocery price. Morever, most of the popular designs and brandname ( yes, they are branded goods!) are American, and it's not like you can easily reproduce or find pirated versions here.
Scrapbooking is basically arranging a layout of your favourite memorable photos, and decorating it, for keepsake. Most of the gorgeously-designed papers and decorative items are acid-free and lignin-free, which means they won't fade, discolour or develop those 'age' spots, and they also keep the quality of your photos as it is, in many years.
Back to the cost of this hobby. A box of alphabet chipboards that contains over 100 pieces, it costs USD9.90. But here, it costs S$25 ( actual conversion USD9.90 = S$15), and if it's in Malaysia, perhaps RM 35. Now, that won't be a sustainable hobby...too costly unless you're a tai-tai of a rich husband, or a rich kid. Yes, I'm talking about a potential business here, but it's too risky.
So, what exactly again is scrapbooking? Here's some layouts to give you an idea.
Why did I bought all those pretty rubbish? Simply because they're so pretty, and irresistable to NOT get them. And I don't scrapbook. So, I'll start. But that's not my main passion. My main passion is making greeting cards, which I am working very hard on to 'build' my samples which I will blog about more in near future. And my tools are growing!
Yesterday, my package arrived from the US of A ( I just love Borat). I can't remember when was the last time I was happy like a little girl. Online shopping is indeed THE retail therapy.
Since I so bo-liao, I will share the visuals. But hubby has the camera in Beijing, so mua had to settle with my camera phone.
My package
Ribbons
Chipboard Goodie Boxes
I opened the packets and displayed all the chipboards on my dining table. Go ahead and laugh.
Notecards
Now comes the toughest part. How do I use them. They're so pretty I just want to display them on my table solely for admiring!
I also bought these stamping tools, with rubber alphabet stamp set. I will post more about this new toy.
In case you're wondering, what are all those rubbish for? Well, in America especially, many stay-at-home moms indulge in this highly creative hobby called scrapbooking. It's been around for a long time I guess, and it's only getting more popular here in Singapore, and maaaaaaybe Malaysia. But not quite, because those 'rubbish' are not cheap here after the currency conversion. But if you're living in America, these things are like normal grocery price. Morever, most of the popular designs and brandname ( yes, they are branded goods!) are American, and it's not like you can easily reproduce or find pirated versions here.
Scrapbooking is basically arranging a layout of your favourite memorable photos, and decorating it, for keepsake. Most of the gorgeously-designed papers and decorative items are acid-free and lignin-free, which means they won't fade, discolour or develop those 'age' spots, and they also keep the quality of your photos as it is, in many years.
Back to the cost of this hobby. A box of alphabet chipboards that contains over 100 pieces, it costs USD9.90. But here, it costs S$25 ( actual conversion USD9.90 = S$15), and if it's in Malaysia, perhaps RM 35. Now, that won't be a sustainable hobby...too costly unless you're a tai-tai of a rich husband, or a rich kid. Yes, I'm talking about a potential business here, but it's too risky.
So, what exactly again is scrapbooking? Here's some layouts to give you an idea.
Why did I bought all those pretty rubbish? Simply because they're so pretty, and irresistable to NOT get them. And I don't scrapbook. So, I'll start. But that's not my main passion. My main passion is making greeting cards, which I am working very hard on to 'build' my samples which I will blog about more in near future. And my tools are growing!
Thursday, May 10, 2007
I'm Cured
Quote of the day: “Insomnia is a contagious disease often transmitted from babies to parents.” -Shannon Fife
It's amazing. The two chinese cough syrup and throat tablets, together with Difflam, an anti-bacterial lozenges had finally gave me the good sleep I've been lacking. I tucked Daniel in bed at about 10pm, settled some of my stuff for a while, then I lied on bed thinking, "Well, if I doze off, I doze off, if I don't, I'll walk around the house or watch a movie while coughing my internal organs out". Miraculously, I dozed off. When I opened my eyes, I thought I overslept, but it was only 4am.
I lost my flabby tummy and I'm starting to develop a 6-pack from all that coughing.
It's amazing. The two chinese cough syrup and throat tablets, together with Difflam, an anti-bacterial lozenges had finally gave me the good sleep I've been lacking. I tucked Daniel in bed at about 10pm, settled some of my stuff for a while, then I lied on bed thinking, "Well, if I doze off, I doze off, if I don't, I'll walk around the house or watch a movie while coughing my internal organs out". Miraculously, I dozed off. When I opened my eyes, I thought I overslept, but it was only 4am.
I lost my flabby tummy and I'm starting to develop a 6-pack from all that coughing.
Wednesday, May 09, 2007
Quote of the day: If you had to identify, in 1 word, the reason why the human race has not achieved, & never will achieve, its full potential, that word would be “meetings”.
My favourite pastime these days is reading blogs. Blogs of friends, strangers and the cyber-celebrities, mostly local. I enjoy it because it's almost like watching TV where there are news, drama, announcements, personal experiences, parenting experiences and travelogues etc. I especially enjoy reading blogs of those who goes places and is leading the high-flying life. Not that I feel like I'm missing out, it's just entertaining. Like watching the Discovery Travel & Living channel. I wish I could provide a blog like that, but I don't go on holidays 5 times a year, nor I attend parties and gala events every week. But that's fine because it's not the lifestyle I want anyway.
So, being a simple girl, leading a routine simple life, I can only share what I heard on the radio yesterday. Apparently, a law in Korea requires companies/this particular company to pay their female workers 'Mentrual Pay'. Monthly pay for having period. And a particular company did not fulfil this for a year, and so, was sued by the women, and now, each female woker is compensated a thousand over dollars. Now that's BLOOD money!!
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This is what I've just started taking. After strong recommendation from colleagues. It seems like Chinese medicine is more miraculous than the western drugs. Well, I'll see how my cough goes tomorrow, or the next...
My favourite pastime these days is reading blogs. Blogs of friends, strangers and the cyber-celebrities, mostly local. I enjoy it because it's almost like watching TV where there are news, drama, announcements, personal experiences, parenting experiences and travelogues etc. I especially enjoy reading blogs of those who goes places and is leading the high-flying life. Not that I feel like I'm missing out, it's just entertaining. Like watching the Discovery Travel & Living channel. I wish I could provide a blog like that, but I don't go on holidays 5 times a year, nor I attend parties and gala events every week. But that's fine because it's not the lifestyle I want anyway.
So, being a simple girl, leading a routine simple life, I can only share what I heard on the radio yesterday. Apparently, a law in Korea requires companies/this particular company to pay their female workers 'Mentrual Pay'. Monthly pay for having period. And a particular company did not fulfil this for a year, and so, was sued by the women, and now, each female woker is compensated a thousand over dollars. Now that's BLOOD money!!
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This is what I've just started taking. After strong recommendation from colleagues. It seems like Chinese medicine is more miraculous than the western drugs. Well, I'll see how my cough goes tomorrow, or the next...
Tuesday, May 08, 2007
Lonesome Bug
Quote of the day: A balanced diet is a biscuit in each hand.
The man of the house is off to Beijing for a company retreat, actually he left for KL first since Sunday evening, and won't be back in 2 weeks time. *secretly plotting my own 'retreat'*
Before he left, he did something that made me smile. He told me this, "Darling, in ANY moment that you feel unhappy about my current travelling arrangement, just tell me ok. I will immediately find a way or discuss with my boss to stop it. Yes, this is good for my career, but it won't mean anything if it makes you unhappy and if it jeopardize our relationship. YOU ARE MY PRIORITY you know?"
How not to melt...
The truth is, I'm totally comfortable with it. In fact, it makes me kinda happy because I get more time for myself. But hearing that from him just...ssiiiigggh, I dunno, pushed all the right buttons. So sometimes, women do like to hear what they want to hear, or THINK they want to hear.
I'm incurable...
The man of the house is off to Beijing for a company retreat, actually he left for KL first since Sunday evening, and won't be back in 2 weeks time. *secretly plotting my own 'retreat'*
Before he left, he did something that made me smile. He told me this, "Darling, in ANY moment that you feel unhappy about my current travelling arrangement, just tell me ok. I will immediately find a way or discuss with my boss to stop it. Yes, this is good for my career, but it won't mean anything if it makes you unhappy and if it jeopardize our relationship. YOU ARE MY PRIORITY you know?"
How not to melt...
The truth is, I'm totally comfortable with it. In fact, it makes me kinda happy because I get more time for myself. But hearing that from him just...ssiiiigggh, I dunno, pushed all the right buttons. So sometimes, women do like to hear what they want to hear, or THINK they want to hear.
I'm incurable...
Friday, May 04, 2007
Baby boyz to Men
Quote of the day: “Let your children go if you want to keep them.” -Malcom Forbes
My boy, one with a cheeky smirk, has become a man. He has showed me affections that I didn't expect from an almost-two year old toddler.
Last weekend when I was still PMS-ing, I cried my heart out, something which a girl need to do once in a while ya know, just to cry. Anyway, I figure it would be a good opportunity to see how the little one react.
Daniel stoppped playing with his toys, and looked concerned for me. He stood next to me as I sat sobbing on the floor, and he pat my head gently. As I cried some more, he put his arms over my shoulders and drew me close, in a comforting manner. I rest my head on his little chest, and he continued holding me firmly. Everything he did was right!! Like an adult! Then later on, as I settled myself down with a few more sniffs, he motioned me to play the shape sorter toy with him, as if to distract me from my sorrows.
It was priceless.
My boy, one with a cheeky smirk, has become a man. He has showed me affections that I didn't expect from an almost-two year old toddler.
Last weekend when I was still PMS-ing, I cried my heart out, something which a girl need to do once in a while ya know, just to cry. Anyway, I figure it would be a good opportunity to see how the little one react.
Daniel stoppped playing with his toys, and looked concerned for me. He stood next to me as I sat sobbing on the floor, and he pat my head gently. As I cried some more, he put his arms over my shoulders and drew me close, in a comforting manner. I rest my head on his little chest, and he continued holding me firmly. Everything he did was right!! Like an adult! Then later on, as I settled myself down with a few more sniffs, he motioned me to play the shape sorter toy with him, as if to distract me from my sorrows.
It was priceless.
Thursday, May 03, 2007
Freaky
Quote of the day: It is easier to get forgiveness than permission.
WHOA... that astrological exagerrated lie I posted that other day... could be true leh!! I came back from Seremban, then hor, cough non-stop. I didn't sleep for TWO days because the cough kept me awake! Worst ever cough I had! I think I've been cursed!
That aside, for the first time in maybe 5 years, I stepped into MidValley Megamall. I can't say it changed much, because I don't even remember how it was the last time I was in there. I bought a comfortable pair of Lewre shoes, without looking at the price tag! And I'm banging my head on the wall now. Daniel also tried on a pink leather 3 inch-er but it was way too big and sexy for him.
Notice there is less pictures now. Mua getting lazier...
WHOA... that astrological exagerrated lie I posted that other day... could be true leh!! I came back from Seremban, then hor, cough non-stop. I didn't sleep for TWO days because the cough kept me awake! Worst ever cough I had! I think I've been cursed!
That aside, for the first time in maybe 5 years, I stepped into MidValley Megamall. I can't say it changed much, because I don't even remember how it was the last time I was in there. I bought a comfortable pair of Lewre shoes, without looking at the price tag! And I'm banging my head on the wall now. Daniel also tried on a pink leather 3 inch-er but it was way too big and sexy for him.
Notice there is less pictures now. Mua getting lazier...
Friday, April 27, 2007
Long Weekend Ahead
Why is it that whenever I get the rare chance of a long weekend break, I have to 'waste' at least half of it. I'll be off from work on Monday because it's Labour Day on Tuesday.
It's funny how I took such holidays for granted before I got married. Long breaks was just another regular weekend. I would've planned for a short getaway, but I was lazy. I just wanted to hang out in my own home doing nothing but watch meaningless TV shows. No motivation, no drive. Just brain hibernation.
Now, I would've done things differently. I would have seized every opportunities for nice trips to places I've always wanted to go, or go again. Not that I can't do it now, just that it's harder to make things happen because there's extra people who needs attention too. I think wanting to reward myself is NOT being selfish. I work, I endure the daily commuting, I try hard to please my parents and in-laws, I take care of my husband and my son, well, I think I deserve a good vacation damnit!
SO, I will be going to an island in the Bahamas!! OHHHH, to bask in the sun and pamper myself with spa treatments!
IN MY DREAMS.
Well, you know where I'll be. Have a good break!
It's funny how I took such holidays for granted before I got married. Long breaks was just another regular weekend. I would've planned for a short getaway, but I was lazy. I just wanted to hang out in my own home doing nothing but watch meaningless TV shows. No motivation, no drive. Just brain hibernation.
Now, I would've done things differently. I would have seized every opportunities for nice trips to places I've always wanted to go, or go again. Not that I can't do it now, just that it's harder to make things happen because there's extra people who needs attention too. I think wanting to reward myself is NOT being selfish. I work, I endure the daily commuting, I try hard to please my parents and in-laws, I take care of my husband and my son, well, I think I deserve a good vacation damnit!
SO, I will be going to an island in the Bahamas!! OHHHH, to bask in the sun and pamper myself with spa treatments!
IN MY DREAMS.
Well, you know where I'll be. Have a good break!
Thursday, April 26, 2007
Old Generation Men
Quote of the day: To love a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To love a woman, you must love her a lot and try not to understand her at all.
The bitch gotta say this.
Disclaimer: The below does not apply to every single old man, it only applies to the guilty ones.
The old generation male chauvinist swines should change, simply because times have changed. And I'm talking about the leaders of my country, down to the simple family man living an average life as a civilian. But my focus now, is the simple family man.
1. Doesn't cook... AT ALL. Leaves everything to the wife/daughter/any female in the household. He is king, therefore is served daily with good home-cooked food or any food.
2. Doesn't learn how to cook. Doesn't want to. Doesn't care. Not interested. Cooking is sissy, and he is king, therefore, should be served daily with good home-cooked food or any food.
3. Doesn't do the dishes. He is not taking it for granted, merely believing that it's a rule that men don't do dishes. He is king, therefore is exempted from such laborious work.
4. Doesn't do the laundry. Being an extreme traditionalist, he must not attempt any physical contact with the women's undergarments because in his neanderthal little mind, it will bring him bad luck and will not win any lottery.
5. Doesn't iron. He doesn't know how to, and he doesn't want to learn anyway.
6. Doesn't clean the house. He only washes his precious car.
7. All his grown-up children must come home to visit often, to prove their filial piety, even with the little babies. He doesn't know/care/realize what the children go through to try to make him happy. Plain INsensitive.
Generally, every chores in the house is best left to the woman. Because she can do it. Even if I am exaggerating a little on some points, it is more or less along the same line. Such men, should start to change.
And then I think, it is the women who are spoiling the men. Like what I am doing! Somehow I couldn't shake the traditional role from myself. Although I am an equally capable financial contributor to the household ( if not, more), when I come home, I want to clean the house, do the laundry, iron his shirt and prepare dinner. It's not that I have to, but I want to. And it only made me tired and angry at him. That was 2 years ago. Now, I am still spoiling him. But I no longer feel angry. It's a role I play out of love.
Strange world.
The bitch gotta say this.
Disclaimer: The below does not apply to every single old man, it only applies to the guilty ones.
The old generation male chauvinist swines should change, simply because times have changed. And I'm talking about the leaders of my country, down to the simple family man living an average life as a civilian. But my focus now, is the simple family man.
1. Doesn't cook... AT ALL. Leaves everything to the wife/daughter/any female in the household. He is king, therefore is served daily with good home-cooked food or any food.
2. Doesn't learn how to cook. Doesn't want to. Doesn't care. Not interested. Cooking is sissy, and he is king, therefore, should be served daily with good home-cooked food or any food.
3. Doesn't do the dishes. He is not taking it for granted, merely believing that it's a rule that men don't do dishes. He is king, therefore is exempted from such laborious work.
4. Doesn't do the laundry. Being an extreme traditionalist, he must not attempt any physical contact with the women's undergarments because in his neanderthal little mind, it will bring him bad luck and will not win any lottery.
5. Doesn't iron. He doesn't know how to, and he doesn't want to learn anyway.
6. Doesn't clean the house. He only washes his precious car.
7. All his grown-up children must come home to visit often, to prove their filial piety, even with the little babies. He doesn't know/care/realize what the children go through to try to make him happy. Plain INsensitive.
Generally, every chores in the house is best left to the woman. Because she can do it. Even if I am exaggerating a little on some points, it is more or less along the same line. Such men, should start to change.
And then I think, it is the women who are spoiling the men. Like what I am doing! Somehow I couldn't shake the traditional role from myself. Although I am an equally capable financial contributor to the household ( if not, more), when I come home, I want to clean the house, do the laundry, iron his shirt and prepare dinner. It's not that I have to, but I want to. And it only made me tired and angry at him. That was 2 years ago. Now, I am still spoiling him. But I no longer feel angry. It's a role I play out of love.
Strange world.
Monday, April 23, 2007
Aching Monday
Quote of the day: Not one shred of evidence supports the notion that life is serious
I had black chicken herbal last night. Too tonic that I am suffering of 'heatiness' today. Body aching, sore throat, and just 'sickly'. But wait, nothing can beat the anticipation of the arrival of the stuff I bought online. *pant pant*
I had black chicken herbal last night. Too tonic that I am suffering of 'heatiness' today. Body aching, sore throat, and just 'sickly'. But wait, nothing can beat the anticipation of the arrival of the stuff I bought online. *pant pant*
Friday, April 20, 2007
The Price of Life
Quote of the day: By the time you can make ends meet, they move the ends.
I think the quote is so true. But yesterday, today and from now onwards till the day it ends, it has a positive connotation for me. Not only can I make ends meet, I can enjoy humble pleasures with the additional amount of earnings from this month onwards. It's BONUS day!! And salary increment bonanza! The amount of the increment came as pleasant surprise. So pleasant I just want to take the day off and throw money on the streets.
Right now, with way things are going, and while it lasts, I am enjoying this privilege. I am earning more, AND able to spend more time with Daniel now. It seems almost like a perfect arrangement, which reminds me of my constant prayers to God for 'better times ahead'. The power of prayers...
Amen. OK, i'm going shopping now.
I think the quote is so true. But yesterday, today and from now onwards till the day it ends, it has a positive connotation for me. Not only can I make ends meet, I can enjoy humble pleasures with the additional amount of earnings from this month onwards. It's BONUS day!! And salary increment bonanza! The amount of the increment came as pleasant surprise. So pleasant I just want to take the day off and throw money on the streets.
Right now, with way things are going, and while it lasts, I am enjoying this privilege. I am earning more, AND able to spend more time with Daniel now. It seems almost like a perfect arrangement, which reminds me of my constant prayers to God for 'better times ahead'. The power of prayers...
Amen. OK, i'm going shopping now.
Thursday, April 19, 2007
God Bless The Internet
I did some online shopping yesterday and today, and I think I am getting addicted! I can't help but click on the "Add To Cart" and "Checkout" icons. Before the brilliant invention of VPost, a new-ish postal system under the wings of Singapore Post, it was difficult to shop online, especially the American online shops that do not ship internationally, and even if some do, the international shipping charges are exorbitant. Now, I can send all merchandise to the VPost USA address, and they can collate the items bought from different locations, and send it to Singapore at one go! How ingenious isn't it! Gosh, this kind of shopping is exhilarating, because the excitement grows by the day as you look forward to receive your package. Oh, so hot and bothered now!
Pictures coming...
I think I've memorize my credit card number..GULP!
Pictures coming...
I think I've memorize my credit card number..GULP!
Tuesday, April 17, 2007
Gai Tzao
Quote of the day: No man has ever been shot while doing the dishes.
As mentioned way back, this is a delicious Chinese home-cooked chicken in wine and ginger.
How to cook it
As mentioned way back, this is a delicious Chinese home-cooked chicken in wine and ginger.
How to cook it
Monday, April 16, 2007
Friday Culture Night
Quote of the day: Eat well, stay fit, die anyway.
It's great to have talented workmates, particularly one who sings a rich baritone. Quite a gutsy personality that chap. Last Friday, some of my culture vulture colleagues and I attended his solo concert at the Esplenade. A big part of the concert's proceeds will fund his examinations for a Diploma in Music.
The recital studio in Esplenade, where many musicals, plays and other artsy farts events are held. This is of course not the grandeur-est of the hall, which I've never been in.
View of Esplenade from where we were dining at. Behold the eyes of the Drosophila! The locals call it The Durian too.
It's great to have talented workmates, particularly one who sings a rich baritone. Quite a gutsy personality that chap. Last Friday, some of my culture vulture colleagues and I attended his solo concert at the Esplenade. A big part of the concert's proceeds will fund his examinations for a Diploma in Music.
The recital studio in Esplenade, where many musicals, plays and other artsy farts events are held. This is of course not the grandeur-est of the hall, which I've never been in.
View of Esplenade from where we were dining at. Behold the eyes of the Drosophila! The locals call it The Durian too.
Thursday, April 12, 2007
Who is Uglier?
Quote of the day: Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity.
I'm talking about motorists, especially car drivers. An unpleasant incident opened my eyes wider recently and has given me something to talk about Singaporean drivers.
I was on AYE, an expressway, driving home after work, and as usual my route is the same everyday. I put on my signals to turn into an exit, and slowly inched in. There was this equally black sleek car, a Toyota Camry, SDR 9599M, that was already on the exit lane before me, but it wasn't going any faster than me. And I was already approaching quite the end of the exit, so I drove faster and switched into the exit lane before it's too late, still with my signals ON. I didn't do anything sinfully wrong rightt? The Camry dude didn't seem to like that coz he flashed his lights behind me. Fine. Whatever. When we came to this double-lane road, the dude came beside me, and glared. I looked back at him, stone-faced without blinking. Then I turned away, and when I looked back at him, he was just putting his hand down after what I thought was giving me the indecent finger gesture. Well, I didn't see the finger, so it's not counted. Shameless ah pek.
From then onwards, I started to observe the drivers in Singapore. 90% of the time, when you put on your signals to switch lane, the cars will go faster to be ahead. That's one finding so far.
I asked Paul about KL drivers since he's been driving there a lot lately. He said most of the time, drivers give way. And they won't force/squeeze their way in either. So educated siah!! Or is this just many many coincidences.
If you're in JB, you'll find that the drivers are a bit uncivilized. They will find all means to beat the jam, like cutting queue, taking alternative lanes that will lead back to the main lane, which creates bottleneck and the jam in the first place. As long as there are space to occupy, they will do it... all in the name of I-want-to-bypass-all-these-stupid-people-who-queue.
The motorcyclists who work in Singapore are the best. They are literally kings of the road because they sometimes outnumber the cars, so they think they rule the streets. Regardless of whether you put on signal or not, they whizz pass you blatantly, won't slow down, won't move to the side, won't give a crap basically. They are probably the most stressed up motorist you'll ever see. It's all about TIME TIME TIME. MUST GET TO WORK FAST. MUST GET HOME FAST. DON'T GIVE SHIT ABOUT THE CARS AND LORRIES. I SWERVE HERE AND THERE BECAUSE I LIKE. JACK BE NIMBLE JACK BE QUICK.
Nobody loves traffic jams right, and it's here to stay whether we like it or not. Times have changed, more cars are going to be on the road, so why can't we all just give way to less stressful driving. Hey, that's a good bumper sticker phrase, " Give Way To LESS STRESSful driving". Gotta make one and start a revolution. Honk honk!
I'm talking about motorists, especially car drivers. An unpleasant incident opened my eyes wider recently and has given me something to talk about Singaporean drivers.
I was on AYE, an expressway, driving home after work, and as usual my route is the same everyday. I put on my signals to turn into an exit, and slowly inched in. There was this equally black sleek car, a Toyota Camry, SDR 9599M, that was already on the exit lane before me, but it wasn't going any faster than me. And I was already approaching quite the end of the exit, so I drove faster and switched into the exit lane before it's too late, still with my signals ON. I didn't do anything sinfully wrong rightt? The Camry dude didn't seem to like that coz he flashed his lights behind me. Fine. Whatever. When we came to this double-lane road, the dude came beside me, and glared. I looked back at him, stone-faced without blinking. Then I turned away, and when I looked back at him, he was just putting his hand down after what I thought was giving me the indecent finger gesture. Well, I didn't see the finger, so it's not counted. Shameless ah pek.
From then onwards, I started to observe the drivers in Singapore. 90% of the time, when you put on your signals to switch lane, the cars will go faster to be ahead. That's one finding so far.
I asked Paul about KL drivers since he's been driving there a lot lately. He said most of the time, drivers give way. And they won't force/squeeze their way in either. So educated siah!! Or is this just many many coincidences.
If you're in JB, you'll find that the drivers are a bit uncivilized. They will find all means to beat the jam, like cutting queue, taking alternative lanes that will lead back to the main lane, which creates bottleneck and the jam in the first place. As long as there are space to occupy, they will do it... all in the name of I-want-to-bypass-all-these-stupid-people-who-queue.
The motorcyclists who work in Singapore are the best. They are literally kings of the road because they sometimes outnumber the cars, so they think they rule the streets. Regardless of whether you put on signal or not, they whizz pass you blatantly, won't slow down, won't move to the side, won't give a crap basically. They are probably the most stressed up motorist you'll ever see. It's all about TIME TIME TIME. MUST GET TO WORK FAST. MUST GET HOME FAST. DON'T GIVE SHIT ABOUT THE CARS AND LORRIES. I SWERVE HERE AND THERE BECAUSE I LIKE. JACK BE NIMBLE JACK BE QUICK.
Nobody loves traffic jams right, and it's here to stay whether we like it or not. Times have changed, more cars are going to be on the road, so why can't we all just give way to less stressful driving. Hey, that's a good bumper sticker phrase, " Give Way To LESS STRESSful driving". Gotta make one and start a revolution. Honk honk!
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
Discrimination? Or not...
Quote of the day: For every action, there is an equal and opposite government program.
Once a upon a time, I decided to drive to work everyday. I applied for a season parking tag, on a monthly payment basis. In Biopolis where I work, there are two carpark basements, where seasonal users park are B2 and hourly users park at B3, and this is has been the policy forever.
Yesterday, I received a confirmed notification that all foreign-registered vehicles are to park at B3 only, to facilitate tracking of foreign vehicles as part of enhancing security measures. Now, this is new to me. I wonder if such policies are implemented anywhere else in the world, even in America where discrimination is a huge no-no. So, I am not sure if their reason given is at all really really 'sound'. Should I pursue? Or should I just shut up and comply and be discriminated.
Once a upon a time, I decided to drive to work everyday. I applied for a season parking tag, on a monthly payment basis. In Biopolis where I work, there are two carpark basements, where seasonal users park are B2 and hourly users park at B3, and this is has been the policy forever.
Yesterday, I received a confirmed notification that all foreign-registered vehicles are to park at B3 only, to facilitate tracking of foreign vehicles as part of enhancing security measures. Now, this is new to me. I wonder if such policies are implemented anywhere else in the world, even in America where discrimination is a huge no-no. So, I am not sure if their reason given is at all really really 'sound'. Should I pursue? Or should I just shut up and comply and be discriminated.
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
Jobs in KL?
Quote of the day: Don't worry about what people think, they don't do it very often.
I saw a recruitment ad on the papers last night. INFOVALLEY is hiring bioinformaticians; they want IT-based experts in the processes of genomics and PROTEOMICS. Hey hey! That's me!! It's not everyday you see the word Proteomics on he recruitment section. BUT the best knowledge I have of computers is how to change my blog template. *!!!!* How lidat how!
Seek and thy shalt find...
I saw a recruitment ad on the papers last night. INFOVALLEY is hiring bioinformaticians; they want IT-based experts in the processes of genomics and PROTEOMICS. Hey hey! That's me!! It's not everyday you see the word Proteomics on he recruitment section. BUT the best knowledge I have of computers is how to change my blog template. *!!!!* How lidat how!
Seek and thy shalt find...
Tuesday, April 03, 2007
My Head is Spinning
Some bug going around in the office, we have 3 people down yesterday, including myself. I felt like I was drugged or something, like the world is spinning. It must be some viral infection of my midle ear, that was why I was off-balance all the time. And perpetually tired and out of breath.
Anyway, when the traffic was kind last Friday, I pulled this feat when I got home. Dinner in an hour.
Simple food really. Beats eating junk food outside eh. Wait a minute... I cooked junk food too!
Anyway, when the traffic was kind last Friday, I pulled this feat when I got home. Dinner in an hour.
Simple food really. Beats eating junk food outside eh. Wait a minute... I cooked junk food too!
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